MyUsername - I think there are probably theeee reasons why people go quiet between asking and having the date.
some people just get someone to agree to a date as a validation thing, with no real intention to follow through.
Some people don't know what to talk about until you've taken the next step - meeting.
Some are focusing on the next iron to line up the next date after/before you
Now, if it's the first, then he's worth dropping.
If it's the second or the third, then that doesn't bode well, but - message him. Be funny. Send a jokey comment, or a joke, or say something relevant and interesting.
He's done the asking out. It does actually take some bravery to ask someone out, you know. We get rejected, it's hurtful when that happens, so asking itself is a brave thing. If you want to keep the conversation going, and keep him interested in you, maybe you should do some work to do that?
Its the opposite of cowardly to arrange the drinks, as we get told 'no'.
This isn't directed at anyone here, but seriously,
Men send the huge majority of first messages
Men ask the woman on the first date, most of the time
Men are usually expected to choose the place, and travel if needs be, to a place where the woman is comfortable
Men are often expected, by some, to pay for everything. But also if a man offers to, it can be seen as patriarchal and old fashioned. So we're expected to read minds.
even if all the above aren't true in your cases, they are in general. Do we really have to put all the effort in between asking for the date and meeting too? Can't a woman put some effort in to keep the conversation going?
Ideally, it should be effortless of course. It should be fun.
But.. if it's not that, at least it should be fair.