Support thread for those of us having to coparent with a narc or very difficult ex partner thread 5

[Lilacpink40]

Open to everyone, please come and share your experience. Will post a link to useful support information below.

Previous Thread (4) is here:
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WN= Wank narc (aka Shit Head SH or exP or whatever you prefer).

Hey Ohb I'm ok, just dealing with shit. Ex's sister just emailed me the pictures from his funeral and it's got me a bit upset, I didn't expect to get so upset but I cried like a baby there.

Sorry Nats I meant to acknowledge your post about the death of your ex in mine. That's such a shock.

I'm not surprised that those pictures made you tearful. I remember how difficult he made your life, but you no doubt loved him once and you had a child together, whom you both loved. There's an understandable sadness in knowing that his life clearly went very wrong, and is now over. Those positive feelings you had for him will be a comfort to your dd.

Oh Nats I'm sorry you're having to go through all that!

He certainly had his good aspects and I've been choosing to focus on those for DD's sake.

How are things with you Ohb?

Wow!!!

So good to hear updates from you lot!

@Natsku sorry to hear you have had such a tough time.

Not a lot changed for me other than DIVORCED!!!' Thank God! WN still lying, still effecting the children negatively but I guess my strength is returning and I can cope with it better.

WN has now bought a new house, with gf he has lied about for 2 years and I have never met. Lovely position for small children to be put in but hey ho.

@nicenewdusters HJM!!!!! I can't believe he is still simmering away there quietly!!! I want a happy passionate ending 🤣🤣

Oh... and another positive. We have the most adorable kitten. DCs been waiting for so long, not knowing what was going to happen to our home in divorce made things so unstable, but house back in my name, and kitten all settled in! Just the best thing I have done in years. Kids won't stop hugging and kissing him, I get cuddles every night and overall a funny, gorgeous and entertaining (read naughty) new member of the family 🐾

Hooray for the divorce PurpleThursday!! And the kitten, oh I love kittens, can we get a picture?

Of Course!! Have to share the kitten love 💕💕

Oh my!!! So freaking cute!!!