Couple swapping

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Hello

New name, you know....

I am on here a lot but not this topic.

Anyway....

Advice please....

Happily married - typical 2 kids mid 30s etc etc

Friends have suggested quite openly that we swap. We are due to stay at thiers tomorrow night, they live about 100 miles away.

We have a relaxed, chatty, friendly relationship with them. Been on holiday as couples. Not that long standing. No deep and meaningful discussions.

The haven't swapped before and neither have we. My husband and I had vaguely thought about it before kids with another couple but it never happened. This couple just sort of suggested we all try the last time we met up which was for dinner rather than staying over. Holiday means that boobs, bums, wobbly bits, and so on have already been exposed.

I have to admit, I fancy the idea, hubby too, and I texted just now to say ummmmm ok.

Thoughts?

Bad idea?

SH

I'm so annoyed, I was given butternut squash as a replacement for courgette, by Sainsbury's! Not going to make squash spaghetti am I!

Oh fuck no I couldn't do it. I think it's a huge risk to take with your marriage especially with friends.

You see, I'd always put hubby as I hate dh with a passion. It's another lol or '...' for me

100 miles for a bit of swinging?

Who is babysitting? Or are the DC coming along?

Boodles

"hubby"?

This is definitely your first post here.

It's sordid and suggests you have no moral compass OP. But I guess you already know that. Sounds like you're both on the same page though so go for it. It's your poor kids I feel sorry for, being brought up in such a dysfunctional situation. But hey, as long as you're both happy I suppose.

It's grim.

Just discussed this with my DH2b. He was "no,no,no, no, NO!"

I couldn't imagine being in that situation, tortuous after I would think, but whatever floats your boat I guess.

Whatabloodyidiot1 couldn't have put it better myself.

Just don't do it!...

Don't do it.

There's a courgette shortage?!

But I got a spiralizer for Christmas....

Couldn't care less about the swinging, but did OP just refer to mid-30s as 'middle-aged'?!?!!!?

Post a picture of the other couple and then I'll give you an opinion.

hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

no

As long as you both enjoy the potential of wreaking long-lasting emotional hell on each other and the other two involved for something you will enjoy for about ten minutes, then go ahead.

The internet is making people lose touch with reality, if you ask me....

You can make butternut spaghetti can't You?

Or turn it into chips

Erm... terrible idea. Also how does one go from casual texting to 'fancy swapping partners' intrigued?

We've all done it OP.

Go for it

Yes. Just do it. And now you may delete this thread because it's boring.

Your call but think of the 'what ifs'

Ie what if...
She has a tighter fanny with stonger pelvic floor
She is better a blow jobs
Likes it up the bum and you dont
He has a cock thats just right and piv is better thsn your partner
He is better at oral sex than your partner
She gives you oral sex and you wonder why you ever went out with a man.
.
So it may open your eyes to a whole new hobby, it maybe something for the photo album or it may end your marriage
All unknowns until it happens of course. It may be mythology but Pandora's Box is not wholly irrelevant

Speak for yourself TheNaze73.

Butternut spaghetti?

Well I never.

"ChardonnayKnickertonSmythe

"hubby"?

This is definitely your first post here."

Haha

The worst what if...one of the kids (yours or theirs) comes in and catches you?

I had a feta salad for supper, felt a bit louche for January, nothing spiralized btw, I'm not crazy....