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Couple swapping

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user1484939839 · 20/01/2017 19:23

Hello

New name, you know....

I am on here a lot but not this topic.

Anyway....

Advice please....

Happily married - typical 2 kids mid 30s etc etc

Friends have suggested quite openly that we swap. We are due to stay at thiers tomorrow night, they live about 100 miles away.

We have a relaxed, chatty, friendly relationship with them. Been on holiday as couples. Not that long standing. No deep and meaningful discussions.

The haven't swapped before and neither have we. My husband and I had vaguely thought about it before kids with another couple but it never happened. This couple just sort of suggested we all try the last time we met up which was for dinner rather than staying over. Holiday means that boobs, bums, wobbly bits, and so on have already been exposed.

I have to admit, I fancy the idea, hubby too, and I texted just now to say ummmmm ok.

Thoughts?

Bad idea?

SH

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FuckOffDailyMailQuitQuotingMN · 21/01/2017 19:59

Oh yes, 15 years old indeed.

so predictable and utterly mundane.

user1477416713 · 21/01/2017 20:01

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maras2 · 21/01/2017 20:06
Hmm
FuckOffDailyMailQuitQuotingMN · 21/01/2017 20:07

You really are quite riled up, aren't you user?

WellErrr · 21/01/2017 20:08

How odd.

PollytheDolly · 21/01/2017 20:08

Totally never buying butternut squash again

user1477416713 · 21/01/2017 20:09

If you peel them it will be fine!

gamerchick · 21/01/2017 20:09

Seriously user have a word with yourself.

Sparklingbrook · 21/01/2017 20:10

Calm down user1477416713, have you been at the Wine? Grin

PollytheDolly · 21/01/2017 20:12

I jest user

I bet you wouldn't put your fingers up their arse then have the sexual balls to look them right in the eye and put your fingers in your mouth and wrap your tongue around them whilst playing with yourself with the other hand, then lean forward and put your tongue in their mouth.

Fucking amateur. Fuck off.

user1477416713 · 21/01/2017 20:16

Alrighr, alright. Just seriously hacked off with the judgy pants ish of this topic on Mumsnet. Time after time people post about swinging or consenting sex between more than two others. Not abuse or coercion. They receive slut-shaming condemnation and abuse from posters who have no personal experience. And utterly petty de-railing about veg ffs

I say that as a swinger, Radio 4 listener and courgette purchaser. Oh horror you might have stood in the queue at Waitrose next to me.

WellErrr · 21/01/2017 20:18

People have derailed it because it's bollocks, not because they're prudes.

HTH.

Sparklingbrook · 21/01/2017 20:18

Well you have managed to lower the tone user1477416713 and that takes some doing on a thread about swinging. Grin

PollytheDolly · 21/01/2017 20:18

Omg. Radio 4?

GrinGrinGrin

All in jest with me, honest. Wine

Sparklingbrook · 21/01/2017 20:19

'slut shaming'

user1477416713 · 21/01/2017 20:23

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ChardonnayKnickertonSmythe · 21/01/2017 20:23

You seem to have misunderstood, user.

I was slug shaming, not slut shaming.

FuckOffDailyMailQuitQuotingMN · 21/01/2017 20:23

Slut shaming?

Jesus. I could care less who fucks who and how many.

This thread is bollocks as well said.

FuckOffDailyMailQuitQuotingMN · 21/01/2017 20:24

Christ, user are you ok?

Do you need help?

FizzBombBathTime · 21/01/2017 20:26

Saggy old Fannies? Wtf?

You're 'very got demons, user.

Sparklingbrook · 21/01/2017 20:27

user1477416713 you are being a bit weird now. Confused

FizzBombBathTime · 21/01/2017 20:27

Damn autocorrect!

you've got demons

coughingbean · 21/01/2017 20:28

slug shaming Grin

coughingbean · 21/01/2017 20:28

slug shaming Grin

coughingbean · 21/01/2017 20:28

slug shaming Grin

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