Couple swapping

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Hello

New name, you know....

I am on here a lot but not this topic.

Anyway....

Advice please....

Happily married - typical 2 kids mid 30s etc etc

Friends have suggested quite openly that we swap. We are due to stay at thiers tomorrow night, they live about 100 miles away.

We have a relaxed, chatty, friendly relationship with them. Been on holiday as couples. Not that long standing. No deep and meaningful discussions.

The haven't swapped before and neither have we. My husband and I had vaguely thought about it before kids with another couple but it never happened. This couple just sort of suggested we all try the last time we met up which was for dinner rather than staying over. Holiday means that boobs, bums, wobbly bits, and so on have already been exposed.

I have to admit, I fancy the idea, hubby too, and I texted just now to say ummmmm ok.

Thoughts?

Bad idea?

SH

"gunting

Not sure which term is more grim - 'hubby' or 'sloppy seconds'"

Hahaha!!!

Of course it is each to his or her own and quite rightly so but why come on here seeking validation for your actions then? IF this post is real and the OP is so comfortable with it all, what the hell difference does the opinion of total strangers make? Bugger all. If you want to do it, just get on with it, don't post a thread asking for "thoughts" and expect them all to agree with you.

Yep this has Jay written all over it.

How are you feeling now OP? I may be projecting because I know I wouldn't cope with this, but your later posts don't sound as chipper as your first ones. Hope you're ok.

I agree with pp, this post is fake or the "experience" was fake. Either way it's gross to think of someone wanting to hear all this for their own satisfaction- the OP clearly didn't give a toss so why she asked for opinions is beyond me.

The whole thread was worth it for Teza's retort.

At least the courgette shortage is real.

There are loads of courgettes in the Midlands

Glad to hear you had a good time OP.

I am disgusted at the bitchy nasty comments posted on this thread. People ought to take a long hard look at themselves and what exactly it is that they get out of putting down others.

Bwahahahahahaha tou should see what one poster in defence of swinging had to say. Demented she was. It is it "bitchy"?

There's no need to boast abbsisspartacus

FuckOff why do you think it's fake? Stranger things happen than describe in the OP, I have seen and taken part in them

It's not strange to "couple swap" it's been going on for ages. As have lots of far more kinkier things.

It's a ridiculous thread altogether that has little to do with the sexual behaviour and more to do with how it has all played out. I do enjoy absurdity and this is truly absurd.

I am sure loads of people love a bit of swinging.

But they don't all post a thread on MN asking for 'thoughts' or whether it's a good idea. They just get on with it.

long hard look

Ooh er

Corrrrrrrrrgette

Giggity!

Hi there just popped in to say...I was young, innocent & needed the cash regarding "spiralising"

If you really can't answer this yourself then ask your children . Their reaction should point you in the right direction .

Is it mum's net or tart's net ?

A typical Mumsnetter?

"BoringUsername17

FuckOff why do you think it's fake? Stranger things happen than describe in the OP, I have seen and taken part in them"

Oh wow. You are so cool.

"Oldfashionedmum1

Is it mum's net or tart's net ?"

Hehe

It's neither, Oldfashionedmum1, as there's more than one member and it's no longer the 1950s.

Shockers That's meant to be a serious answer ?

Who's watching the children while the parents are out having sex with other parents ?

"Shockers

It's neither, Oldfashionedmum1, as there's more than one member and it's no longer the 1950s."

Is there more than one tart too? Or are you not going to pass comment on that?