Wow, where did 9 pages come from?
And so many funny people talking about vegetables. It is almost as you want your own little private club where you can sit on judgement on women you decide do not have the same flawless characters that so many of you seem to have.
A few small points.
When I say that I come here regularly, I don't mean that I come here as often as I breathe, I mean that I come here more frequently than I go on holiday. But I do have other things in my life, my children, husband, family, job, friends, sport, gardening, pizza making, and sitting looking at the wall, are all examples. I come on here perhaps more often than I make pizzas but less often than I do something in the garden. It is still regularly. I hardly every post and mostly read, usually to make myself feel better about my life. In comparison to some people here I am happy, cheerful, sociable, balanced and tolerant. Most of all I am non-judgemental and kind when thinking about other people's choices in life. Well I am not always, but I do try.
No one sent me the document with the following rules:
I have to call everyone in my life some bizarre acronym starting with D. I don't want to do this.
I shouldn't use my initials at the end of posts. I don't care about this one and chose to sign my posts with my initials.
I didn't know you could just change your username, that is why I made a new username. I therefore can't post on the sex topic because you need to be registered for more than 90 days. More to the point, this seemed to me to be a relationships issue, I know how to have sex and could imagine how to do it with someone other than my husband.
OK?
Now for the interesting bits.
My children were being looked after by my DMIL (dastardly mother in law).
We met these friends when we lived abroad and kept in touch. We didn't do a 200 mile around trip to swap, we see each other two or three times a year. Some of you may find that having friends is normal and that sometimes those friends may not live within 2 minutes of you.
We got there, had some lovely cocktails, plenty of chat, dinner, some drinks and then went to bed with 'the other man'. We had sex twice and it was really really great fun. We swapped back after a couple of hours and I had lovely warm sex with my husband and then we went to sleep.
In the morning it wasn't awkward, it was happy, funny, and I am really glad we did it. I found it sexy, liberating, horny, and really satisfying.
Oh, and finally to the cultured, dignified, polite women who asked what would my husband do if my friend's 'fanny' was tighter - you are a bloke aren't you?
Thank you to those of you who made kind, thoughtful, honest, or humorous replies.