Husbands not come home - not answering phone

[unicornpoopoop]

Husband went out last night. Still not home. Not answering his phone or texts. Now what? Just wait and get increasingly stressed out/pissed off...?

Also suggest to phone. But I suspect they've probably gone out again.

This is crazy and no wonder its given you anxiety :(

My exh used to do this. He'd tell me he'd been arrested, or a mate had, or he'd lost his phone (which would miraculously turn up) or he'd had to take a friend to A&E.

I'm pretty sure it was other women but I never found out. I left him for being an abusive fucknugget in the end.

I did think about ringing and asking to speak to him but now part of me wants to see how long he's actually going to leave it. And what he's going to say to my face.

I last rang him at about 11, then gave up trying.

Il be even more fuming if he just comes through the door without even a text beforehand

We've got a 5 year old and a baby.

I did think about ringing and asking to speak to him but now part of me wants to see how long he's actually going to leave it. And what he's going to say to my face.

I totally understand that instinct but you're stuck in limbo now waiting for him. Don't waste any more time on him.

All you have to say is you expect him to come home right now to discuss his behaviour and then you can deal with him face to face when he gets there.

I'd be ready to murde r him by now, bad enough staying out all night but still bit home would be the final straw ....

Has he still made no contact? Honestly if he is fine I'd kick him out, this isn't ok.

So sorry OP that this is happening to you! Totally unacceptable and irresponsible on his part! Can you reach out to his family to see have they got in contact with him? It's very late in the day to still be out from the night before?

What about the friends mother you heard back from earlier? Would you contact them again?

Well I rang him and as expected he's had a go at me

Had a go at you for what?

Why did he have a go at you?
Don't let him minimise how awful his behaviour is. He is totally out of line.

He is a cunt

Why did he have a go at u ?

Don't allow him to behave like that towards you, op. He is totally in the wrong here and don't allow him to persuade you otherwise.

I hope you are packing up some bits of his, ready to leave outside. What an arsehole.

Honestly, pack his bag and tell him to fuck off.

Why did he have a go at you? Why is he so defensive? He has been out all night and all day today, he should be on his knees grovelling to you. It's time to put your big girl pants on, his behaviour is so far away from acceptable it's untrue.

He's disgusting. Please, draw a line.

He's had a go at you? Why?!

Do not put up with his shit, he's bang out of order.

Why did he have a go? I'm with the others on that, he has two kids, little kids, who the fuck just stays out?

Your DH is a bastard. You and the DC deserve better.

Pack his bag, enough for a week and whatever he needs for work etc.

Leave it on the doorstep and leave the key in the door so he can't get in.

What a selfish prick.

OP it's 4 o clock. It's getting beyond a joke now, what's he doing now?

Ok. Mind changed again. He's an utter cunt.