Fresh eyes please on this

[Messedupmethinks]

2 year old toddler away from mummy for a week including xmas

Can I just update please. I've seen toddler for 2 days , but he's dad refused to let me take him . Spoke to police they can't do anything so I still am without him

Toddler with his dad which is a plus tho

Messed

Are you concerned? I'd be out of my mind by now.

So you've been able to spend some time with your child then, Messed?

I would be distraught if someone prevented me taking my child home. Are you okay?

Has he said when he'll let you have him back?

Yea he's a bully that's what he is . I'm upset/depressed obviously. Trying to out on a show n stay strong for my other children. I rang him this morning and was told to piss off

Looking at after the Christmas period has finished now Mavis

He's shown you his true colours afresh, OP. He didn't give a shit about his child for an entire year, and he doesn't give a shit about you. I hope once he does eventually hand him over (and I really hope he intends to do this, and not start rumblings about custody) you tell him that access is going to be on YOUR TERMS.

It depends. I left my eldest son with my mother for a week when he was 18 months old, but she had seen him virtually every day since he has been born, it was unavoidable and he knew her home as well as his own. I knew he would be completely fine. Would I allow a virtual stranger to take my child away fir a week? No way

I didn't allow it