Husband has been arrested.

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He wants me to go and visit him. Would you? The relationship is over. However, he is still the father to my children. It's to do with a 15 year old girl.

Totally agree with you. She owes him nothing.

How are you today OP?

No,,hes goosed, i fully expect that the police will dig deeper on this, examine his computer and phone/phone and text records. They can gett all of that off his phone provider., Watch this space for a charge of sexual grooming at least.

LAW >

Meeting a child following sexual grooming.

Sexual offences act 2003 section 15

If guilty, could be jailed.

OP you may not have the full story..

I wouldn't go, you need to teach your boys that what their dad did was horrific and not a bloody mistake. Teach them not to do the same and don't paint him to be the victim who just messed up a bit. If you visit him you are showing your boys that your "almost ok" with the fact their dad has been grooming children . sorry OP hope your ok

He really sees it as he 'made a mistake'. Wow.

xStefx '...If you visit him you are showing your boys that your "almost ok" with the fact their dad has been grooming children'.

Sorry but that's just not true. In fact, if the OP decides to see him - to discuss practical issues, for example - the children needn't even know. There are numerous reasons she might need to speak with him, none of which would make 'OK' with his offending.

*make her 'OK' with his offending