My partner is damaging his daughter's mind, body and soul (follow on thread)

[RedStripeLassie]

A follow on from my dp doesn't look after his mind, body or soul (Offreds words for the title)
I understand people's anger, sadness and frustration at the situation I'm putting dd in but would appreciate further help as I feel I'm getting somewhere and don't want to lose the momentum and ignore everything.
Thanks to everyone that took time posting and don't feel like you have to again if you feel it's not going anywhere or its falling on deaf ears.

Glad to hear you're okay :) I hope it all works out for the best in the end

Red I don't blame you at all - it did seem to become a bit of a witch hunt.

Wishing you, your DD & your DH all the best for the future

Hey red how are you? How was this week? I'm sure I'm not the only person thinking about you and hoping you and DD are ok.

Me and dd are ok. We are away (without him) for a few days. Too stressful at home. Things are moving on.
Thanks.

Good to hear things are developing.

enjoy the break

Take care.

I don't really want to restart this thread but just to let anyone know who was really, genuinely concerned for my dd that stuff happend and I chucked him out. He's gone.

Well done, Red. Of course you know you are doing the right thing for your DD. I know it's hard, though, realising you have to give up hope that he will care enough to change.

for you and for DD.

Thanks .

I know I said things would change by Christmas but I don't think I really believed it deep down. Thanks to everyone that helped make me stronger.

Wow RSL. That doesn't sound too pleasant for you to have gone through but well done for protecting your DD. Best of luck. Stay strong.

Well done. I followed your last thread and saw what a difficult situation you found yourself in. It sounds like you have been very strong - keep going and best of luck.

Brave girl, well done and the best of luck in the future.

Well done. I'm very proud of you

Well done, RedStripeLassie!!!!!

You should be so, so proud of yourself. You have done the right thing for your child.

I can't imagine that any of this has been remotely easy for you, but I think you've done really well in putting your DD's needs before his. I hope you stay strong and manage to have a normal life with her. He's not worthy of either of you. I echo DistanceCall when I say I'm really proud of you.

Well done. I was on your other thread but couldn't get into my other account anymore
Hope you are ok.
Please talk if you need to talk about the practicalities of single parenting etc that you need to

Good job. I think of you and your DD often and I'm so happy to hear this.

It will be hard, especially over the first few weeks but in 6 months time I think you will be amazed at how different your life has become.

Wishing you every success and all the luck in the world

So proud of you, Red. Well done!

Thanks for all your kind words. Without using MN as a stepping stone I'd never have made the actual leap to telling people in real life and then actually booting him out!

I hope you and your daughter have the peaceful and joyful Christmas you both deserve.

Onwards and upwards towards a new year!

Good for you, Red. Have thought of you and your DD often. I hope you have a lovely Christmas

Hope you had a good Christmas red x

Thanks! I did. Very relaxed and child centred. I hope you had a good one too .