Husband wants his ears pierced

[welshgirlcharlotte]

Thoughts?

[dotdotdotmustdash]

Is he taking up piracy? Otherwise, no.

[PilkoPumpPants]

What was your response?

[welshgirlcharlotte]

I told him I'd prefer if he didn't but that it's was his ears! I then told him to take off my dress that he was wearing!

[YouHadMeAtCake]

Bertucci I totally agree. Thank goodness my DH thinks the same!

[WalterWhitesNipple]

Midlife crisis.

Is he also interested in buying a red sports car and bleaching his hair blonde?

[SirChenjin]

Oh god Bertucci - I was just joking

[DramaInPyjamas]

I don't know, pierced ears look good on the right sort of man - the right sort of man being (imo) a rock n roll type ? Is he a rock n roll type?

[PsychedelicSheep]

My boyfriend has one ear pierced, he is only 26 though. And he hardly ever wears an earring in it anyway. I like it though, he's a musician and a bit of a bohemian type and it suits him 😊

[pugsake]

Persuade him to get his tongue done instead. Then your both happy (so I've been reliably informed)

[prokupatuskrakedatus]

Over here it's a tradition for craftsmen (very old one). So nothing unusual or noteworthy.

His ears - his decision.
If you say no - he can veto your hairdo.

[LiviaDrusillaAugusta]

I then told him to take off my dress that he was wearing!



Is this a joke? I'm guessing by the grin that you aren't concerned about him wearing your dress? Is it relevant to the ear piercing?

[ChampsMum]

This has reminded me of Eastenders... Les dressing up in Womans clothing.

[Wonkydonkey44]

Tell him to get his nipples done instead lol

Why at 42 does he want his ears piercing 😳

[ahsan]

think he would look stupid. You got anyway of distracting him and making him forget the whole idea.

[DonaldStott]

If my dh told me he was getting his ear pierced. I would tell him not to expect me to be here when he got back from claires accessories. I do judge men with earrings. They look pathetic imho.

[Myusernameismyusername]

I would laugh too much

[mysteryfairy]

My DH has his ears pierced and is 44. They've been pierced since we met when we were 16 so it's not something I notice now. He has a suited job in the City so rarely wears any earrings. I've never thought of it as a relationships issue though.

[notangelinajolie]

Men with earings not for me either. Thankyou for making me smile 😊 I just looked over at DH and tried imagining him with one. Seriously though what your DH does with his ears is up to him - I would be interested to know why he wants to do this though. Is he hunky DB? Do you have kids? What do they think? OP please report back.

[Whocansay]

I would wonder what his employer would make of it. He won't be able to take them out for a while until they've healed.

Or is he self employed? I think it looks naff, but it's a personal choice I suppose.

[OnionKnight]

My employer is perfectly fine with my ear piercings, why wouldn't they be?

[NerrSnerr]

Whocan why would most employers have an issue with it? Most women I work with have earrings in and no one asks them to take them out.

[Myusernameismyusername]

It would only be an issue in some health care settings

[CheckpointCharlie2]

My DH had his ear pierced at about 33, we had a deal, he got it done and I had a baby, fair dos imo. He has a silver disc. He is good looking and beardy so it suits him. Phwoar!

[Joysmum]

Funny how when anyone does anything that isn't to our taste, they're having a mid life crisis

I don't expect my DH to have any say in how I have my hair or dress if he likes it that's great but tough if he doesn't. Therefore if I expect to be able present myself to my taste, so he should be able to do the same.