support thread for those of us having to 'co-parent' with a narc or very difficult exh 2

[Lilacpink40]

Hope this works...

[nicenewdusters]

It doesn't sound like you are rushing Ohb, which is good. Try not to think of it from his point of view. Nobody looking in from the outside - as we are - would think you were doing anything wrong. You have many valid reasons for not wanting him to have unsupervised access with your ds. He's already broken his first pledge - which was to do anything to have a relationship with him. What he meant was, I'll do anything that suits me, and that doesn't include paying any form of maintenance.

[Ohb0llocks]

I meant the baby situation dusters

But I see what you mean. I've told him he can speak to DS on the phone later.

DS hasn't been responding well, he is only little. I've tried to mention daddy a few times but he keeps saying not got one just a best friend (DP) and storming off l.

[nicenewdusters]

Sorry, not thinking/reading straight tonight !

[Lilacpink40]

New link:
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/2776507-Support-thread-for-those-of-us-having-to-co-parent-with-a-narc-or-very-difficult-exh-thread-3?msgid=64791159#64791159