support thread for those of us having to 'co-parent' with a narc or very difficult exh 2

[Lilacpink40]

Hope this works...

It doesn't sound like you are rushing Ohb, which is good. Try not to think of it from his point of view. Nobody looking in from the outside - as we are - would think you were doing anything wrong. You have many valid reasons for not wanting him to have unsupervised access with your ds. He's already broken his first pledge - which was to do anything to have a relationship with him. What he meant was, I'll do anything that suits me, and that doesn't include paying any form of maintenance.

I meant the baby situation dusters

But I see what you mean. I've told him he can speak to DS on the phone later.

DS hasn't been responding well, he is only little. I've tried to mention daddy a few times but he keeps saying not got one just a best friend (DP) and storming off l.

Sorry, not thinking/reading straight tonight !

New link:
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/2776507-Support-thread-for-those-of-us-having-to-co-parent-with-a-narc-or-very-difficult-exh-thread-3?msgid=64791159#64791159