Tinder Temptresses Unite....It's Dating Thread 106

[PrizeyPrize]

1. The first rule about the dating thread is you don't talk about it with people you're dating.
2. Develop a thick skin.
3. Do not invest emotionally too soon.
4. It's all BS until it actually happens.
5. Trust your gut instinct.
6. People vanishing, lying & being generally weird is not your fault.
7. You are the prize-they should be trying to impress you.
8. If it's not fun, stop.
9. Loo update is mandatory.

10. No dating the thread. 11. Read Why Men Love Bitches (aka WMLB), and take from it what you will. 12. Don't serve up moose burgers on the first date (although this is still in debate right now) 13. Matthew Hussey also very useful. And very easy on the eye even if you don't find him any good. 14. IF THEY SAY THEY DON'T WANT A RELATIONSHIP, THEY DON'T WANT A RELATIONSHIP

I hadn't heard of ByeFelipe.

I must google.

skye totally unnecessary. Is he trying to make himself sound in demand.

314 & merville thank you. You are right they are so pathetic it's laughable. I would respond this happened too long ago...this was the crazy who put my phone number on a seedy site and I had to involve police and change my number. He told me I was lucky he was a nice guy, next time I might not be so lucky. All I did was block his number, we'd not met, just spoken that day. He is obviously a psychopath who I didn't want to get into discussion with tbh. It was at the end of a fretful night of my phone going crazy with unwelcome calls,texts,facetimes,photos,voice mails from dirty, greasy, old men....I was frazzled by the end of the night. So, shamefully, I did not respond. Midget is a very weird one though but thankfully now I can laugh at it

Enlighten me on what byefelipe is?

Skyrabbit that is the most bizarre thing ever. Just... Why?! Why did you need to know that?!?!

skyrabbit How ungentlemanly of him. He's bragging obviously and telling you that ge's still in the game & in demand, at best he's insensitive.

I agree with others skyrabbit he's playing games, I wouldn't bother with him tbh.

Carrot byefilipe is an instagram /Facebook site which names and shames the men who dish out abuse to women when they get rejected. Some of the abuse is truly shocking.

sky that is very odd. How would she have recognised him if they hadn't met before? From a profile photo it could easily have been mistaken identity.

Mr Sunday has been graceful and said he'd be happy to meet up as friends sometime if I wanted. Which I may take him up on, actually. Shows a good nature when they are graceful like that, I think.

Thanks everyone - I thought it was odd, but my judgment is all off at the minute so I wasn't sure!
His exact words were "extraordinary thing happened today. I arranged to meet another tinder lady and she saw us yesterday! In the street and also in th bookshop . How weird is that?"

This is after taking 24 hours to reply to me at all. I rather think I may take longer than that to reply.......

Hello everyone!

Please may I join the thread. Just out of a year long relationship with someone I met online.

Going to approach things much more head over heart this time and this thread looks like the place to be!

Welcome Polka!

Can I join too. I had a date last night with a gorgeous, sexy kind and funny guy and believe me I've had about 20 unsuccessful dates (I didn't fancy them) but him WOW we DTD and I didn't feel bad or guilty it felt right.

So got my fingers crossed for this. He appears to be as smitten as me which is even better..

Hop on board sparkles.....does this fella have a brother please??

Can I ask what you think of being called names during sex?

Aw Prizey no just a sister. He used to be a policeman which I can't decide if good or bad but he just so lovely....date 2 and 3 planned

Do you mean things like 'babe' or horrible names Whatnow?

nowwhat love it when I'm in a long term relationship, but new guys definitely not. Red flag for me I'm afraid!

Surgeon guy called me bitch during sex with adjectives attached to the front. I may have been a bit amorous and I am quite naughty in bed but even so.

I let it go the first time and the next couple of times then I said dont call me that. He apologised, stopped and later in the car apologised again.

I agree wouldn't like that one little bit either!

My guy (I'll call him baldy) grabbed my hair quite tight n slapped my bum but I kinda liked it

Red flag or just misunderstanding?

Red flag deffo! It's degrading surely?

That I wouldnt mind: playful hair pulling and having my bum slapped

Being called names a dirty bitch it turned me off

Yeah would me too but if he said it laughing I'd probably agree!

Nowwhat yes I agree it's disrespectful, and could be a bit mysogenistic, although some people like that submissive/dominant thing during sex, but he wouldn't have known if you liked it so early on presumably, so it's just disrespectful in this case.
I'll pass on the sister thanks sparkles he sounds lovely. Fingers crossed he's a keeper!

I was being quite forward in bed though. Nothing particularly slutty it is just the way I am. Apparently no one else he's been with has been like me and he really liked it and was complimentary.

Maybe he just didnt know what I'd find offensive but shouldnt have tested that. he did apologise profusely later in the car.

This was also after clinking glasses to our second date and holding my hand and arm round my waist in the park. Then he vanishes.