Well, you were all right. He is, in fact, a massive shit.
He was very cold to start off with, saying he'd just been mulling things over and decided that he didn't want a relationship. So, I said I didn't understand as I thought things were going so well and what had changed. But he couldn't/wouldn't say much more than that. Said the lack of messaging last week was just due to being busy at work (his phone was switched off during the day) and denied any change of tone..just said he couldn't fake a mood.He seems to have spent a whole week wrapped up in his own head, trying to figure stuff out, came to the conclusion that he didn't want a relationship and that was that.
So, I got angry. Really quite angry and said he hadn't considered my feelings at all. I said did he not consider that after we'd had sex, I might feel rejected etc and he said no. I reminded him of the conversation we had prior to sex and that he must knew what it meant to me. I also said that I wasn't sure if anything he'd ever said to me was true, which he took massive offence too. So he starts getting angry with me, saying that I'm talking to him like a 4 year old, which makes me even more angry. I said that sending me that text last night was fairly shitty and he could have at least called. But apparently he didn't think of that.
His attitude was very much that I was being unreasonable to call him on this, he'd done nothing wrong at all. I told him that I hadn't intended to phone up to have a go at him but I was just so shocked and hurt by his reaction. Apparently I was making the hairs on the back of his neck stand up...and I wasn't shouting or screaming just talking in an angry tone.
Eventually he hung and immediately blocked me on WhatsApp
I'm just reeling. And shaking. It's honestly like he was two different people. That kind, clever, funny, charming guy is just gone and this cold, uncaring twat is what's left. I feel so stupid for getting sucked in but he was so charming. I'm looking back for red flags and honestly I can't see many, other than the charm and the future faking. And his being so much on his own, no friends or family round him and minimal interests...that always worried me.
Anyway here endeth the saga of Freaky and Bacon. What a fucking rollercoaster ride that was! I'm just so sad. Up until this point, I hadn't met any gits on OLD, just guys I hadn't really clicked with, or it didn't work for one reason or another but this is just a whole other level.
Sorry for the delay in updating. Been talking (ranting!) with my bestie who thinks I should take a break from OLD and she's probably right.
This is going to hurt like a motherfucker in the morning. 