Financial Abuse - AlmostFreeMo - Part 4

[AlmostFreeMo]

Next Fred...

Good for you. I remember reading the anxiety around going solo for the first time with the kids and worrying about the logistics but like you found it much easier without him. It just got easier and easier. Then it was our new normal.

Great!

May I just cry "woot!" a bit? I love it!

Woot! Woot! Woot!

It's a good encapsulation of how great a life you can have woot him

It it wrong that I am almost cheering for NewMo?

How about a name change for the next thread to...

FindingNewMo

I'll get me coat

Joy that name....findingnewMo is inspired change to this Mo .

Well done Mo, what you described earlier sounded lovely. What you described in regards to prick being involved.....you are well rid!

Shakes and flourishes pompoms for finds ngnewMo

Hurrah.

*FindingnewMo
*

Joy - no need to get your coat! FindingNewMo = bloody amazing!
But I also like FuckItAndWoot
Still ridin' the crest of that high btw...

Glad to hear it. You've got an army of Pom Pom wavers here Mo

Woot, Woot, Woot Woot, GO MO GO MO GO MO!!!!

It's great to see you coming out of the FOG and realising that he wasn't just financially abusive but so controlling and constantly PA as well.

Run Free Mo!!!!!!

They're great names! Both so representative.

GO MO WOOT WOOT WOOT!

WOOT WOOT WOOT!!!

Brilliant, write it in the kitchen, in the car, say it as your mantra any time you are down... And there's a brill bit of advice on the Cassie thread from someone who has cast her chains.

What a brilliant post to read from you Mo!

Go you!
And, it gets better. Every day will get better

I took my kids to the local pub with friends for a sausage and beer festival. I say crying laughing with my friend. Others joined us. We were there for hours.
Not something I could have done with my twatty ex

sing along now....... freedom, Freedom, oh FREED,OM .......

Thought you might enjoy this

Hehe that's great!

I only got round to creating my snazzy new label now, prompted by a new email from him which has managed to upset me without me even opening it (saw first few words).
Prick knows he needs to send money for something important, but won't send it until I've sent him a link to show him the details and I'm not doing it. He has now managed to stress himself out because I've not responded or chased and he knows he needs to send it. But I'm still not going to respond. He can stew.

Bravo Mo.

Well done holding fire let's see if he pays.

Well done!
See it's no fun for him unless he gets a reaction.

Way to go Mo!!!!!

He will probably turn it on me though, i.e. they didn't get x because you failed to cooperate with me and send the link.
OK, if you say so, prick. Because I'm so selfish and never put my children first ever, do I?

You're right Mo, he will. He''ll up the anti but at least you wont be playing dead anymore and he'll have something to think about.

He isn't going to like that you won't play. Of course he won't. The buzz is in your chasing and attention and him feeling all powerful and in control. He'll up the ante to try and draw you back in. He'll kick off. He'll threaten to take his bat home (again, he does that constantly anyway.) And making everything your fault is another of his MOs; logic and reality isn't something that bothers him a lot when it conflicts with how he wants to see things. The email evidence will be looked at by impartial people not looking through his filter when this gets to court and it will be plain who was being impossible and who was not engaging in the game.

This must be unbelievably tedious for you, dealing with his crap day by day.

If you can hold your nerve Mo you are in the driving seat here
Is the important thing something that will affect HIM in any way?