Is it appropriate for a man in a relationship to have 1 on 1 drinks with a female he is strongly sexually attracted to?

[Kaperee]

As the title says really. Would you tolerate this?

I really hope she sees you got the bellend you are and fucks you off. She can do better.

You purposely went out to cultivate this new relastionship with a woman who knew you fancied her.

Then you come on here a play games about who is posting.

I think your a sociopath.

I find it hard to believe that anyone is this thick.

Kaperee's DP - if you're on here GET OUT NOW! Your DP has no respect (either for you or for the woman whose crush he has been indulging) and you can do better.

I think people are being a bit harsh on OP

He probably let it go a little further than he should have, had a bit of a shock, and now he's apparently learnt his lesson and won't be doing it again.

If that's true, then no harm done. Arms length now OP and it will fizzle out.

I would love to know his DP's reaction to his version of events. You really do need to grow up OP

It is natural to find other people attractive, that is not the same thing as being attracted to someone else. Telling people that they are attractive to you is done to find out if the feelings are mutual. Otherwise, why would you mention it? Most people keep their opinions to themselves, unless they are trying to pursue a relationship. If that wasn't your intention then you are either you're not being honest with yourself or you're a few sandwiches short of a picnic.

I think people are being a bit harsh on OP

Anyone who describes themselves as a 'socialite' 😂 deserves their arse handed.

Its terrible, what would the neighbours think?

No it's not ok. Even if you have no intentions of doing anything , if you find the other person attractive anything could happen. Why don't you ask the partners of the people involved and see what they think? Obviously not getting the full story here?

Out of curiosity ..... what did your DP say when you confessed all?