Hello everyone! I have a big update, a lot has been happening...
I have deflected an iron who was not yet named, a fruitful facebook stalk proved him to be a married man. Apple, who was slow in coming forth with suggesting a third date after I had made a lot of effort going to him for our two dates, has only stepped up his game today - only after I had said I wanted to properly end what we had (actually nothing 
). He fell over himself with witty texts and suggestions for an exciting third date. Too little, too late. Leicester, I'm not likely to meet now as I'll explain below.
My ex tweeted me a few days ago, I'd not seen him for two years after he finished our six month relationship (short I know!). He had other quite serious circumstances to deal with (he wasn't married if you're thinking that) and did not cope well. I was the obvious casualty and I had my heart broken. I was completely head over heels for him, the chemistry was ridiculous and I've never had it before or since like that. The tweet suggested he wanted a second chance and I replied with a brush off. There was then a very brief exchange on twitter and then whatsapp messages. And I met him last night.
It was incredibly healing to meet him, discuss what had happened, find out we had both moved on and got our lives together. We both agreed that a second chance now the circumstances are different would be something we both wanted. But I have a big protective wall up and it will take time to see if we fit well together. I think it is worth a second chance but my friend, who witnessed my heartache two years ago, thinks I am stupid for even considering it. And at any point either of us may decide we don't want to go further. What would everybody else do?
Freaky 
I am sorry Bacon has turned out to be IDWAR 
. Your text was perfect, you needed to know. And JollyX I also can't believe what I'm reading about Karmic. What is it with these men?! Intelligent men, who can string two sentences together, unable to formulate even a text to say they're not feeling it for whatever reason.
314 an age range wouldn't really put me off, but then I've been on tinder so I don't suppose my opinion counts as you can't see their age ranges .
Scarf your IDWAR stance sounds right for you at the moment. And fun!
Sassy I would pick the date that is easiest for you even though it is tomorrow. If you get on well he won't be thinking you're too available. He'll be too busy thinking about what a great time he's having!
Waving great to hear about you and MTG!
Hello everybody else! I've missed so much, my head is battered!