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Spying on whatsap

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Lucyloo2222 · 11/02/2016 15:36

Hi does anyone know if my activity can be looked at on whatsap ? My partner is very jealous and seems to know who I've been having conversations with on whatsap . When I get in he always asks have I heard from anyone today and if I miss anyone out he will say their name and ask are you sure you haven't heard from then . He's obsessed every time I use my phone asking 'who is that ? What are they saying ? ' . I was wandering how accessible this information is as he has no access to my phone as I constantly have to change my code . This isn't because I have ever done anything wrong it's just that in the past he has took my phone in the night while I've been asleep and helped himself to what he wants

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Lucyloo2222 · 03/03/2016 08:55

Wow ! I never thought of cameras . Just got back from shift and frantically looked through everything . Still lots in boxes etc so not much on show and organised to hide a camera , can't seem to see anything . My neighbour is very vigilant ( nosey ) but lovely and comes out his gate the minute he hears me so that makes me feel better while I'm in bed today . Changed locks already . I've told my ex husband a little as he obviously wanted to know what was going on . He's a big fella and works near where I live . He would have no problem making his presence known if I need him to due to his sons safety too . It's all early days and still raw . I'm very very paranoid at the moment . I'm not sure if he's read the thread but half of me is hoping he has ,so he knows I have you my friends supporting me and he will know we are all on to him . Thank you so much Flowers

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magoria · 03/03/2016 21:42

Do room by room.

Make sure to 'dust'' every nook and cranny.

Dust inside and outside anything.

You are amazing!

mix56 · 05/03/2016 08:28

Of course if he let himself in before you moved, he was probably able to tamper with your computer again ?
Did you ever discover if he had put on spyware?
re Stalking, make sure you close the curtains, ( if you don't have them a sheet or duvet cover will do the job in the interim.) Can you see if the flowerbeds are stamped over?
But in the end, unless he is completely psycho, he will just have to accept that you have left escaped & call it a day.

BloodyDogHairs · 17/03/2016 10:59

I hope you are doing OK Lucy Flowers

Rainbowlou1 · 20/03/2016 17:12

I have wondering how you were getting on...hope you're doing ok x

iloveredwine · 27/03/2016 11:19

Hope you are ok now

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