Spying on whatsap

[Lucyloo2222]

Hi does anyone know if my activity can be looked at on whatsap ? My partner is very jealous and seems to know who I've been having conversations with on whatsap . When I get in he always asks have I heard from anyone today and if I miss anyone out he will say their name and ask are you sure you haven't heard from then . He's obsessed every time I use my phone asking 'who is that ? What are they saying ? ' . I was wandering how accessible this information is as he has no access to my phone as I constantly have to change my code . This isn't because I have ever done anything wrong it's just that in the past he has took my phone in the night while I've been asleep and helped himself to what he wants

Well it was 4am and her other posts were either 7am, midday-ish or evening. Hopefully she woke in the night to respond because otherwise it looks fishy.

I did think it looked a little bit 'Oh what big eyes you have Lucy'.

i think it was: full stop with space before, no punctuation on end of sentence.

I thought it was strange too posting at 4am.

Actually yes, the style of punctuation is the same.

Think she works nights though sometimes?

Sorry everyone , yes you are right I was on shift at work and did a quick stop and typed it , probably half asleep . I'm ok . Need to finalise my plans and feeling nervous today x

Glad you are ok op. Bound to be nervous but it's the first step to being free-think how much better life will be soon.
As others have said though please
Make sure someone in rl knows what's going on and when specifically you are doing things such as getting your stuff.better to be on the safe side...

Anything you need help with, just shout out.

Ah thanks . Trying to find removal men quick is a bit tough as I want everything out in one go and with no messing and at a good price . Going to be tough being around him until this happens . It doesn't help that his mood is different . It's making me uneasy . All documents and papers out now x

Glad you're ok x

Good luck Lucy, you're doing what you absolutely must to be happy and safe just keep reminding yourself of that.
Take care

Glad your ok, great getting your documents together ask a friend to post on Facebook sites to try and find a man with a van, I've done that before but I asked myself, but in your situation I'm sure a friend would post on your behalf

This post is really alarming.....and terrifying!
I just wanted to add that i hope all goes well for you.....stay safe x

i used gumtree when i moved. good range of prices and he was available within days. see if you can find some on there

sending you buckets full of positive energy and love....you can do this!

Hope you are ok OP and your plans are moving forward

Hope you are ok, and that plans are moving forward.

Sorry i didn't mean to copy you word for word croon - i'm sleep deprived and full of cold and couldn't work out how to word my concern for OP.

No problem, think we are all just concerned for OP and hoping her plans are afoot. Not many ways you can say that!

Was reading back over this thread as couldn't remember when the plans were supposed to be taking place.

Someone said about not forgetting to change your passwords including Apple ID. Also, don't forget to change your secret questions and answers and make sure if you have any other protection set up e.g. a phone number or email address to send new password to, that he hasn't input his own phone number or email address.

Just a thought Lucy, does he have access to your emails at all? I get notifications everytime someone posts on a thread and you can click on it and go to the thread even if you arent logged in - is that how he may be seeing it if he can see your email inbox?

Just please be careful and let someone know your plans so you can have someone with you on moving day, or aware at least of whats going on. I too second at least making the police aware of this behaviour so if you need to call your local station quickly they are aware of the full situation and can respond accordingly

I've just read your thread, Lucy.

Adding my support and best wishes.

Have you told your friend/family yet?

Any chance they can help with a move if you can't sort someone by the weekend?

If he has put spyware on your computer, he will see all he wants once you log in. Once he knows you are posting on MN, he can read with ease from his own computer like any other moral.
So. Hopefully you are successfully moved out or in the throes.
Good Luck Lucy

mortal !