found husband on gay website

[emandems]

found through my husbands email he was on a gay website gaydar. he said he isnt gay but why on a dating site? he said he didnt know if he was?
he said he got abused as a kid in public toilet so he just wanted to make sure he wasnt gay, but dont know if he telling truth. im soo sad

@emandems

The simplest explanation is usually the best - your husband is on a gay dating site because he’s attracted to men. Whether he’s exclusively attracted to men and whether he’s been cheating on you are unknown, but I’d suggest it’s very likely he’s been hooking up if he’s getting messages,