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Partner wants me to get stoned. wwyd?

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marmaladenbacon · 06/09/2015 08:37

My fb has made no secret of the fact he enjoys getting stoned once in a while. I make no judgement about this, each to their own. I have never touched drugs or anything ever, not once. I don't smoke & barely drink. Last night he was telling me how good it feels & said 'I bet you'd be incredible stoned' Hmm (meaning for sex obviously). My question is this: wwyd? I'm interested to hear your opinions. I was brought up to avoid all that stuff but should I give it a go once, for the experience? Or is it a really stupid juvenile thing to do? My personal thought is I'd rather be 'present' for good sex & not pissed out of my mind. I'm really naive here.

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CoteDAzur · 09/09/2015 20:13

"this is the problem, isn't it, people have these untrue assumptions about cannabis not being linked with violence"

Please explain how my experience is the assumption but your prejudice, theory, and observation of some troubled kids in a classroom is absolute truth Hmm

Please explain what you mean by "violence associated with cannabis" means.

lorelei9 · 09/09/2015 20:15

OP
Glad you came back.

Well, that sounds okay...I guess you were hoping more for opinions on what it would be like when you posted?

lorelei9 · 09/09/2015 20:16

PS I mean sounds okay as in, sounds like it was an idea and not pressure.

flatbellyfella · 09/09/2015 21:14

Just keep telling yourself "Drugs are for Mugs" & leave him to his world of psychosis.

MrsFrankRicard · 09/09/2015 21:15

I haven't rtft but I am guessing that what he is getting at is that it can make you really horny. But you don't know how you will react any time you do it. If you don't want to try it then don't. I am fairly relaxed about cannabis, it is probably safer than alcohol Wine

VoyageOfDad · 09/09/2015 21:27

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marmaladenbacon · 09/09/2015 22:10

Actually VoyageOfDad I'm MUCH more interested in rollicking good sex than the contents of my fridge/Matisse etc....

...but sex has always been incredible for me. I wonder can it get any better than it already is? Hmm

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Mondrian · 10/09/2015 05:50

Yes it can move it to the next level.

Abundatia · 10/09/2015 12:31

Don't do it!

fearandloathinginambridge · 10/09/2015 13:54

Back in the day BC (before child), me and DH used to grow our own, just a couple of plants in a hothouse no lights or hydroponic malarkey and not skunk or anything crazy.

I didn't smoke regularly but one thing I did smoke for was to enjoy sex. In the past I found it very hard to relax and enjoy sex but a little pipe beforehand worked wonders. The stuff we grew was quite gentle so I was by no means zonked out or unconscious. I was in control all the time and it just heightened the pleasure.

I agree with others though that you should never do anything you don't want to do.

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