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What went wrong - why isn't he speaking to me?!

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haz1602 · 13/08/2015 08:29

Been friends with this guy for nearly 4 years. We are very close. We have recently started seeing each other and were about to go official. I was meant to see him last night and he said yesterday morning that it will be good etc.

Anyway, that was the last text he sent. We usually text all day. He ignored my reply. He ignored several snapchats (we send silly ones back and forth) and then he sent me one of his nephew later on. I replied asking if I will be seeing him, he opened it and never replied. I txted him twice asking if everything was okay and he never replied. He has read them.

I don't know what to do. I'm going out of my mind and feel worried sick. I don't know whether to try contact him again or what or to just leave it be. I am at work and feel like crying :( He has been online all morning, so he is clearly just ignoring me. Like I said, we have been friends for many years and we talk every single day.

OP posts:
TheHoneyBadger · 14/08/2015 17:14

he knows YOU care about HIM.

oh well that's ok then. you're to be patted on the head now for carign about him? wtf?

'i hope you know i really care about you and sorry for being weird' would have been a start. not the arrogant assertion that you really care about him - and the implication that as so you're worth sending some pics and keeping hanging about for his ego's sake.

yuk.

brokenhearted55a · 14/08/2015 17:49

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EponasWildDaughter · 14/08/2015 17:50

''If it happened again I wouldn't stand for it.''

Why? If your going to stand for it once, why would a second time be any worse?

Allow yourself to be treated like a doormat once and in his mind that is your lowest expectation of him. And then whenever he can't be arsed that's how he'll treat you.

Think about it OP.

Lightnessofbeing2015 · 15/08/2015 21:10

Any news OP?

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