MOST AFFAIRS ARE WOMENS OWN FAULT!? WOULD YOU AGREE?

[kittylette]

I think that most men have affairs because something is missing at home,

if a womans a great cook in the kitchen, a shoulder to cry on, a whore in the bedroom, then there shouldnt be too much of a problem!

i really do think this is the case, and will probably get slated for thinking so,

but this morning on 'loose women' they were all laughing about how they all faked headaches and say they're too tired to avoid sex, and how they only do it once a month and think of england!!
well no wonder men go looking for sex if its being denied it at home??

i always try my best to look good for my DP, and cook nice meals, and we have sex most nights (and i have 2 babies under 2)

just a thought!

kitty

well, nothing more to say

dior thats awful

14 is a beautiful size to be,

course theres more to say - can i legit fo fucking other men if my dh says no constantly?

and

do you ever do it when you really dont want to?

ive finished with this conversation,

thanks for all the replies, but i dont feel anyones really listening to me anyways, lol

i hope you all remain happy in your relationships

xxx kitty xxx

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i wouldnt say its a 'problem' though!

its a great fun part of a healthy sex life!

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You'll get piles.

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kitty can i go fucking other men if my husband says no?

do you have sex when you dont want it?

spot on custardo.

if you don't refuse your husband (and by 'refuse' what i mean is sometimes he wants to and you don't and vice versa) that inevitably means that sometimes you do it when you don't really feel like it. unless you are a machine.

long term relationships go through sexual (and everything else) phases....sometimes kiss and a cuddle and exhausted sleep....sometimes months worth of red hot chilli pepper!

ebbing and flowing is natural, i'd question a relationship that didn't tbh.

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I haven't found my 'soulmate' b/c I don't believe in soulmates anymore than I believe in 'the one'.

Nor does my mother. Who's been happily married for 42 years.

Nor did her mother.

Who was married for 44 years till her husband died.

dont be so naive mellowma

everyone with an apron takes it up the arse

More of a diving rod, lockets!

OMG, i cant believe your all so offended by anal sex FFS

im sorry but i just dont want a quick fumble in the missionary position once every 6 months, i want to enjoy sex and explore sex! now whats wrong with that??

your nothing but a bunch of prudes

I meant divining rod.

I wear an apron, does that mean DW should be doing me...

oh kitty - and how can you take it up the arse - then go to church?

I have an apron, but don't take it up the arse due to aforementioned piles-risk.

Do I win £5?

i could have everyone of your hubbys!

pmsl

but i doubt i would want any of em

or be bisexual and go to church - and what church is this church - i may want to attend

plse dont say your catholic or DC will have3 fuckin field day

kitty can i go fucking other men if my husband says no?

I'm sure thyey'd all want you kitty.

You sound quite, quite charming.

and vanity - my dear is a deadly sin.