Affair - not sure how to cope part 2

[OpheliaRose]

In my previous thread I found out my husband was having an affair with a girl from work and has decided to leave me for her.

My previous thread is here for anyone who would like to se ether full details Old Thread

Frizzy - hugs for you , the sisterhood are with you. Keep hope and faith in yourself - I promise you that you will feel so strong and renewed when you come out the side.

Ophelia thinking of you and sending you a big warm hug -don't forget to start a new thread very soon if you feel that the support here is helping you x

Delurking to give support and virtual hugs. I've been thinking about you a lot (not in a stalkerish way) but I think so many of us have been touched by your situation.
Please don't think that, because so many people have told you how strong and dignified you are (which you are), that you can't come back and say that you feel like you're having a breakdown or that you've gone back on FB and told everyone exactly what those two arsewipes have been up to.
You are a wonderful genuine person with integrity and dignity.
Your H and WF are festering boils on the arse of humanity.
I met my DH at work and can vouch for the thrill of an illicit workplace relationship- we weren't doing anything morally wrong - we were both single- but he was my boss and I was a very junior member of staff and it would have been frowned upon to put it mildly. When I changed jobs and we moved in together, I missed that thrill of putting make up on before I went to work and dressing 'sexily' knowing that he'd be looking at me all day. And, even though we weren't cheating on anyone, I never stooped to sucking him off in his office, we just snatched the odd kiss on the cheek.
I bet you anything that this is not what WF had in mind. I'll give it 3 months before they're arguing about whose turn it is to clean the toilet and he comes crawling back saying that it was all a big mistake. Look after yourself and DTs. You are awesome

New thread here

Sorry for being so quiet I'll update properly in my new thread