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A thread to say something you can't in real life!

381 replies

Sodthisagain · 19/03/2015 22:25

To my not so dear sister
Fuck off to the far side of fuck then fuck off some more! I am not the scheming, money swindling bitch you have insinuated I am today and will no longer going to be your doormat to shout at when you are stressed!!
Oh and don't forget fuck off!

There that's better :-)

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emmelinelucas · 19/03/2015 22:42

To one of my stepsons
You have broken your kind, loving Dad's heart with your appalling behaviour.
You know that whatever you say or do to me matters not one jot - you can never hurt me you vile little fuckwit.
But you do know that hurting your father, who has done nothing but love you hurts me.
What a shit you are.

Misssss · 19/03/2015 22:52

I really really love you. The times I spend with you are the best ever, I feel like we're creating the best memories. I just wish I could tell you. Argggghhhhh!

wolvesatmydoor · 19/03/2015 22:52

To my partner,
I miss being close to you.
Even in the same house the distance is unbearable. I don't know how to make it better. I want a new beginning and for the shadows of the past to fall away. I wish I could be more naturally affectionate. I want us to be close again. If only. .

TokenGinger · 19/03/2015 22:54

Dear hot guy I'm dating

Holding my farts in gives me the worst tummy ache in the world.

Shinyshoes2 · 19/03/2015 22:57

I do blame your cousins , your precious 'close ' family that can do no wrong . So fucking close you have never received a birthday or Christmas card in the 18 years we have been together ... So close they don't even have your mobile phone number and you don't have theirs . You're fucking delusional when it comes to that lot of fucking illiterate cunts .... I despise your cousins and I wouldnt give a fuck if I never see their vile faces again ...
As for your brothers they're a fucking waste of space too
Selfish cunts the lot of them

Lovebug85 · 19/03/2015 23:11

Dear Mum
I am sorry I am not your son! I am sorry I am more successful and happy in life then he is. I am sorry that I have carved out a career and a family life for myself whilst he is still sitting on your sofa. I am sorry that you continue to enable him whilst it's putting your marriage in jeopardy. I am sorry that you choose to believe and side with him no matter how many times people point out to you that he is wrong and repugnant.
If you hadn't noticed by now I am being a sarcastic fuckwitt and I think you have been a wanker to me for most of my life. How does it feel to see your precious boy still act like he is five? Well done, you have done this to him and yourself! Proud?
Oh, and remember next time you feel like being a cunt to me I will be the one choosing the nursing home!

MrsFring · 19/03/2015 23:42

SIL, I know that my refusal to go to your (second) wedding is causing massive ructions in your family and is putting DH in an exceedingly difficult position but why don't you look at the reality of the situation; we loathe each other, we are as different as two people can possibly be and I am done with the hypocrisy.

Go and show off in front of someone else, I can see right through you and I've had enough.

chemistc · 19/03/2015 23:43

To my husband - i hate you.

handfulofcottonbuds · 19/03/2015 23:48

Dear stbxh,

I know how much it hurt to lose all the babies but I instantly stopped loving you when you used the loss of our tiny ones as a reason for shagging OW.

I wish you both unhappiness

FatSwan · 19/03/2015 23:49

To my mother-
Sorry I didn't turn out the way you wanted me to be. I'm also sorry that I'm not really sorry.

To my sister-
I don't think I'll take relationship advice from someone with a lifelong STI. Thanks for judging my marriage though.

Rednotpinkorgreen · 19/03/2015 23:52

To you, with the greenbrown eyes:
I can't move past what you did. A part of me died and your trying to make my dreams come true can't change that. You were my first dream and you made the choice to shatter it.
I can't love like that again. You can't make it better, and the sadness of that knowledge kills me.

fattymcfatfat · 19/03/2015 23:58

to mum
im sorry I have lied to you for years but its for your own good. if I was to tell you what happened then you would never forgive yourself. it wasn't your fault. it wasn't mine. he was just a sick bastard that didn't stop to think that 11 is still a little girl Sad im sorry I can never tell you and cry on your shoulder, that you see the hurt but have no idea what to do. but it's because I love you that I can't.

FluffyMcnuffy · 19/03/2015 23:58

I know you regret hurting me and now you're alone and miserable but I told you you'd regret it.

I'm so happy now, she's a million times more than you, more than anyone I could ever have dreamed of.

To my wife,

You inspire me every single day.

wallawalla74 · 20/03/2015 01:14

ooh good idea op!!! we all need this!

to my ex/boyf I am ignoring atm

I dont know how its possible to love and hate someone so much at the same time but I do
I hope you feel the big man for taking away the last shred of self worth I had
I shouldn't have blown smoke up your ass telling u u were the best sex I'd had I was trying to make you happy but mostly I faked it and the things u did made me feel like a piece of meat and I cried myself to sleep after...If you were a real man u would have noticed this
I hope someone reports you for how cruel you are to your dog...infact I might do it myself as I owe you nothing!

Iwasbornin1993 · 20/03/2015 01:22

Dear Ryan Gosling

WHEN ARE YOU GOING TO COME AND SWEEP ME OFF MY FEET???

I'VE BEEN WAITING SINCE THE NOTEBOOK CAME OUT ALL THE WAY BACK IN 2004 AND QUITE FRANKLY, THAT'S LONG ENOUGH!

Hop on over to good old Sheffield and I'll be here expecting you. Who needs Eva Mendes anyway?!

You beautiful, beautiful man.

Lustfully, Iwasbornin1993 xxx

AngusAndElspethsThistleWhistle · 20/03/2015 01:25

Dear aunt,

I don't need to know my dead grandmother would have treasured my sister's child more than mine. Poor DD, if only she was my sister's offspring rather than mine Hmm

StayGoldPonyBoy · 20/03/2015 01:30

To my sister,

You're a bloody awful person. You've been spoiled absolutely rotten but I still don't understand how you can keep asking for more and give nothing back.

I couldn't learn to drive because they spent all the savings on your extravagant school trips to foreign countries. I never got school trips because they were paying for your expensive hobby. I missed family outings because they could only afford to take one of us and you never volunteered to miss out.

Everyone thought I was content and not bothered, but I was very very bothered and you have the cheek to still demand more and never ever say thanks.

Show some appreciation and stop being a whiny bitch. It's a good job I'm not a demanding soul sucker like you or our parents would be selling organs to fund both our dream life styles.

I had a really crappy wedding which was nothing like I wanted because my 'wedding money' from our parents went on your new car and driving lessons. I'm just waiting for the next thing I miss out on help with because of you.

'But you don't mind, do you StayGold? You'll manage. You're such a good girl'

CunningCat · 20/03/2015 01:40

Oh fatty, as a mum of 4 after reading that I want to give you a massive hug! Please tell someone soon.

WrappedInABlankie · 20/03/2015 01:43

Dear 'mum'

You're quite frankly a horrid, vile worthless cunt. You continue to shag that fat bastard whilst his wife and child is oblivious because you've don't nothing wrong. You LET that thing beat up your son and then told your kids that you'll always choose him because children leave you. No fucking surprise you were an awful person and mother. Here's a heads up money doesn't buy love no matter how much you throw at people.

Dear 'bro'

You too are a vile little cretin. You're not hard, the big man or anything else you claim to be. Let's put this right, you're nothing but a sad lonely manchild, you're 21 still living with mummy, refusing to sign on and get a job because she buys anything and everything you wish. You're obese and you fucked around so much you don't even have GCSE's or friends because you're too god damn lazy to move from that cesspit you call a bedroom. At 21 your lifelong goal shouldn't be completely COD in a day. You're a wasted life quite frankly and it's hard to see you as the big I am you make yourself out to be when mother dearest still buys your fucking underwear!

Dear ex friend.

You've had more boyfriends in the past 3 years your kids been alive then you've taken him to soft play. Just because you don't want to be alone doesn't mean he needs to have every man who climbs into your bed meeting him and calling them daddy. It's also nobody else's job to potty train your child, or take him to nursery or have him when you want to get pissed. Quite frankly you didn't want kids and you shouldn't of had them. Grow up, potty train him, stop dumping him on your parents and grandparents to go out and meet a new bloke every other weekend or get drunk and look after YOUR child! you choose to have him you need to stick to that responsibility. the poor lad has been subject to enough shit in his little life than what you're doing to him. Even I can't keep up with which man you're dating. Also your parents are bloody lovely, so it's vile to see you slag them off and call them every name under the sun when they tell you they can't have your son because they need to take someone to the hospital, they take him to nursery and provide free childcare what else do you expect from them all? AngryAngryAngry

SmillasSenseOfSnow · 20/03/2015 02:53

Dear people in my class

I've barely seen any of you for at least two weeks and I hardly know any of you at all. I can feel myself getting farther and farther away and even those of you who showed an interest in being my friend are now not bothering. I'm sure you think I'm weird or that I couldn't care less about any of you. The truth is that I'm finding the language so much harder than I thought I would, and I just feel incapable of socialising with you on a day-to-day basis. I feel like you all must think I am stupid and wonder what I'm doing there. I know you'd probably all understand English if I spoke it but it would feel like too much of a let down, so instead I let myself get isolated and sink into anxiety and depression and not want to come to class at all. Maybe next semester, I guess. I hope you're all still willing to get to know me by then.

GraysAnalogy · 20/03/2015 04:21

To my best friends mum

For once in your life can you stop making everything about you. And support your daughter for once. And you're ill, we get it and we sympathise but we've also noticed how you can swan off with everyone else but seem to 'come down with it' when your daughter needs you. She put up with all your shit through her childhood the least you can do is be there for her now.

And breath.

GinAndSonic · 20/03/2015 06:14

Dear STBXH, Fuck off and die.

derxa · 20/03/2015 07:04

To my ex work colleagues
Thank you for bullying me even through breast cancer diagnosis and treatment Thank you especially to the cunt who said after diagnosis that I would... "Look back and wonder why I had made such a fuss". It wasn't your breast they cut off was it. Thank you for being so jealous of me that you could say such things. I thank you because I am in a much better place now.

jesy · 20/03/2015 07:17

To ppl
I used to work with. Thank you for making so unhappy , the years of being bullied that resulted in physical symptoms as I was so stressed .
Making me feel inadequate at my job resulting in me leaving it thinking I was going to some thing better but ended up being pushed around and in a way further bullying.

I'd love to go back to old job but can't till your gone but I think it was in film Heather s one bully goes another appears.

The staff know why you are this way but is it my fault your hubby plays around .

manchestermummy · 20/03/2015 07:26

To mum,

Just because we do something differently to how you would do it, it doesn't mean it's wrong. I want you to stop judging the world and his wife and look at yourself. When you told me I was fat when I was seven, did you really think about the damage you might cause. I'm really sorry that I am not the daughter you wanted - slim, attractive and passive - but I think I am doing rather well in this life actually.

Please stop smoking. Please. You will kill yourself. You have COPD already: stop bloody smoking! I may be 'fat' in your eyes (which I am not btw and the coat you tell me is too tight was MADE like that) but at least I'm healthy.

My dds are fantastic. Even DD2. I know you think they are destined for failure because they are allowed to play and be children, but they are amazing. And unlike you, if they want to do something in life that you don't fully understand, and therefore it's wrong, they will be encouraged.

I have given up on the religion in which I was raised. I actually don't give a toss about last week's sermon. People aren't ignorant if they don't know where to stand in a service. I find it hugely offensive how unwelcoming you are in that respect.I feel more at home in a completely different place of worship.

You and dad ruined my wedding with your penny pinching but yet refusal to let us contribute. It wasn't anything near the best day of my life.

To colleagues,

I am neither inept nor incompetent. I don't know what I have done, but the silent treatment hurts. I say I don't care but I do. If you knew how close I came to having a breakdown this week you might try to be a little more professional.

To FIL,

You're a shit. I wish you would piss off out of our lives. I fully intend for you never to see your grandchildren. You don't realise that your ds wants you to have a relationship with them. You aren't welcome in my house any more.