A thread to say something you can't in real life!

[Sodthisagain]

To my not so dear sister
Fuck off to the far side of fuck then fuck off some more! I am not the scheming, money swindling bitch you have insinuated I am today and will no longer going to be your doormat to shout at when you are stressed!!
Oh and don't forget fuck off!

There that's better :-)

Brilliant thread!
To my ex: you are an utter arsehole, a lying, nasty, violent piece of shit.
I cant shout it in your face when we meet for mediation but I really, really want to.
The damage you did to me and our kids, and now you have the Fucking audacity to rewrite history AGAIN. Except this time I KNOW what happened and you cant break my mind again. You are the devil incarnate with your Fucking pacifism, being an arty, sensitive artist. Fuck you, you are a rapist and a violent bully and I will never give up protecting my kids from you.

To my family: thank you for saving us. I realise more each day what you did for us.

To my XH.
Yes I know how clever you thought you were, lying to my solicitor about your earnings and managing to live on only £180 a year despite being a company director. Hiding away half a dozen pension pots and numerous bank accounts. While little stupid old me didn't want to claim for half your pensions or spousal maintenance and brought up all the DCs single handed, working shifts. Not only do the DCs hate you, I won £600k last month! Oh and the tax people will be getting an anonymous phone call this year .

Hope you have a miserable, poor, rest of your life you fucktard.

To my "friend"

I have been distancing myself from you as I can't stand the fact that you think having a baby 1 year before me makes you an expert on all things baby related.
Please don't judge all aspects of my parenting, especially the areas you have no experience of. Just because you didn't do baby led weaning it doesn't mean that it is wrong. There are more ways to do things than just your way. And if something didn't work for you and your DS that doesn't mean it's not going to work for us.
I thought that when I had my DS it would belting us closer together, but actually you have pushed us further apart. And no I am not going to give my DS a bloody Amber bloody teething necklace. So stop asking.

Dear bloke half my age, I would so dearly like to shag you. I won't, obviously. But if you only knew the thoughts in my head. Anyway bash on, I need that report by lunchtime.

I have one

To my friend who I loved to bits I'd have done anything for you in fact I did but we sort of fell out but years later we made up and I stupidly let you manipulate me.

I never lied to you , and it hurt that I didn't even find out about your baby , when I did I was so pleased .

Saw you at the football the other day and my bf was chatting to your husband but felt I wasn't wanted , just remember who did 40mile round trips twice a week so you could get grades needed to get to uni and then dropped as soon as got in.

Oh, Lord have mercy, do you ever shut up? Are you always this two faced?
You can't slag me off to my brother and expect him to not mention it, and vice versa. Just because you're not mates with your siblings doesn't mean DBro and I never talk.

Comparing stories is how we survived childhood, you can't honestly expect us to stop now!

TokenGinger

Dad
You are a massive twat and I hate you. I'm still searching for your approval and affection but should really accept this is never going to happen. You did an appalling job at raising us and how dare you give me advice on how to raise my daughter. Do one.

I love my mum but I hate being responsible for her physical and mental wellbeing (dementia). I really, really hate it.

To OW

Do u have no self respect? No morals?
I feel sorry for you as you must think so little of yourself,
I know u r divorced, and I'm pretty sure it's because your own dh had an affair, so knowing the pain & hurt it caused for u and your children, how could you dare to do that to someone else & their children.
I hope u have a shitty life having to think about what u did every day, that the guilt & shame eats u up,
I hope that your family and children find out one day and u have to try to justify your selfish actions to them,
I would livevto say all this to your face but it won't help me move on, won't change what happened,
I hope you can live with yourself, and look your children in the eye & that someone does the same to them & u have to watch the pain they suffer,
Have a great life

Sorry- now that's out of the way I can get on with my day :0)

To my husband, the love of my life, please try and love me again, I know your depressed and we have had so many tough years with work, business loss ,bereavement we were always rock solid, now you say you feel numb and you don't love me like you should, I can't imagine my life without you, 20 years of marriage can't come to this mess, we have 3 perfect children that we made, hopefully your doctor appointment may help, but I'm desperate and can't function day to day, feel like you've already left, outside factors have created this but we have each other, wish you could just open your eyes to the love we feel for you

To my DIL, I am so sorry about the baby, you were both so excited, and we thought that a baby was impossible in your circumstances. I was so excited about becoming a Granny too. You are such a lovely person and deserve to be a Mother, and I am so sorry that you had to make that decision about terminating. It just isn't fair is it. My heart aches for you, you are such a perfect DIL and you make Ds so happy.
I wish I had a magic wand

Dear BIL,

You are a snobbish cunt and if I never see you again it will be too soon. I have to pretend to be 'family' at get togethers, I have to submit to being hugged even though all you fuckers know I hate it, and I do it to keep dh and pil happy.

You are a vile condescending shit to your brother, my husband and jovially make hurtful remarks. Your wedding was the last straw you odious cock. I will go out of my way to keep my kids away from you because I'm sure 'fun uncle' will show his true colours soon, you pa manchild.

To my friends and family. We have no money. We cannot put petrol in the car, buy groceries. We are living on porridge and milk and vegetables and yet I feel obliged to find pennies to get expected birthday presents together and donations for school trip. We cannot put money into our struggling business because we have none. Why is it so hard for everyone to grasp that. I know we are not the only ones in this position so why is it so hard to admit to and the pressure of keeping a brave face is as bad as the no money.

Mum, please stop treating my DS like a baby, he doesn't need his fucking food cut up he's 18!! Just because you left when I was tiny doesn't mean you have to over compensate with him!! I tell you, he tells you and you don't listen!

DB, grow a spine will you!! Your wife can go to the loo alone so when she wakes you in the middle of the night to go with her instead of moaning to others tell her to go alone!! Stop using our parents as a bank, you already had the money for your wedding from the account that was set up when I was tiny 12 bloody years before you were born!! Do your own housework/washing etc you live in your own house!! Oh and why since the day we announced we were getting married has she a) not spoken b) as soon as I walk in the room walked out c) when we did announce did she walk out screaming and crying in front of all our family and friends... why is she so nasty about everything my family has/does and why have you not stopped her bad mouthing us to our parents?

Parents, I hate you, I hate that you have excluded me and made me feel unwanted since your DS was born, so please when you need something phone him, I don't care anymore. I hate how you let your DIL call the shots on your relationship with your only GS.

DS, get a damn job, yes you are studying but only 3 days a week. I love you but you're a lazy bones.

DH, I love you with all my heart BUT please stop talking about your hobby, it's not just me that is bored of hearing, all your friends and family are too. We all tell you and you think we are joking... we're not!

Thants better, thanks :)

To my so called best friend...

you are a cunt!! I don't know why it's taken 23 years for me to realise this (although i think I've known deep down but been in denial) but you are a complete and utter nasty vicious bitch!

You are a user, selfish, backstabbing, stirring little weasel. Who cares that (you think) you are way better than everyone else, that your house is nicer than all of ours, that your car is newer and smarter than ours, that your are thinner than me, that (according to you) your dcs are more popular than mine, that you think you're more intelligent than me, that you earn more money than us(although funny how you're always skint and have to borrow of us)! I hate the way you judge everyone else from the way they parent to how shit their hair/clothes/house is, yet see yourself as so amazing and immaculate...ha!

You are treading on really thin ice atm...just remember.. remember what knowledge I have...the lies you've told, the things you've stolen (yes may of been years ago, but I KNOW), the times you've cheated on your lovely hard working dp and the shit stirring you've done. Your emotional blackmailing and bullying no longer works on me and I get a little kick out of the shock on your face when I don't comply :) Just a matter of time now before I fully close the door on you...good luck on finding someone else who will put up with as much of your shit as I have.

your soon to be ex friend :)
PS..thanks for inviting me round to yours tonight...and an extra thank you for un-inviting when I made it clear that I wouldn't be drinking.

To my STBXH of 36 years

If only, in all that time, you'd ever really cared about me, or put me first even once ... I've wasted most of my life hoping for it to be "my turn" and now it's too late

To my H.

I don't like you. In fact I positively dislike you. I am so lonely when you are home - far less so than when you are away. When you walked through the door last night yes, my first comment was a bit of a complaint, but let's stop pretending that was the cause of the ongoing silent treatment. The silent treatment started 24 hrs before that when you did whatever it is that you are feeling guilty about. I know. Just the same as I know when you have been drinking in secret and try to gaslight me by denying that you have drunk anything. News flash: when you can't stand up straight and are blurring your words it's not "just one beer" and I don't want you within a mile of our DC in that state. You are damaging them, especially DS.

I fantasise about you dying. It would make my life and the DC's lives so much easier.

To the woman who had my partner's baby

We had split because my mother was dying. But I still loved him with all my being. You spent one night with him. And 3 other men in the same week.

I see your photos on facebook. So happy. Such a beautiful child. I can see him in his son. The lips, the eyes.

I know you wanted that child and stopped at nothing to get it. 4 men unprotected. That is no mistake.

You told him that the universe had a plan. That this baby was meant to be. No. Your baby is a product of simple biology.

it should have been my baby.

And I know I will always look at that child with pain. And I know when I hold that child, the top of his head won't smell of me and my partner. It will smell of you.

You've broken everything for me. For him.

how could you?

I hope you rot in hell.

FIL you are a twat of the highest order and I'm so proud of DP going NC with you.
DB you are a selfish, arrogant arse and you and your DW can fuck off!I hope your DC will be nightmare teenagers! Nothing more than you deserve!
BIL I despise you and your snobbish aspirations you ugly nasty twat! I know exactly what you are, you wait! They don't call me cunning cat for no reason!

To DH

I was really glad to see you'd bought your mum a mothers day card and birthday card and it was ready to be posted this morning, when it was mothers day at the weekend and her birthday yesterday.

I cant gloat say that out loud because I'm trying not to bitch about her to you, because I know it upsets you that she's crap.

It pleases me that although you've been guilted into sending those (because I know you have) you've taken back control by not sending them on time.

I wish your family weren't shit, but they are.

Oh, and MIL.......... piss off.

Dear ex boss who sexually assaulted me 3 years ago,

I am still terrified of you today, despite you being found guilty and sent to prison, despite not having seen you since that day in court. I am still terrified that you will somehow get your revenege on me. I fucking hate you.

I pretend to be strong but I'm not. I have so much hate and anger inside me at how you and the OW have treated me and your children. You lied to her just as much as you lied to me but she doesn't care. She doesn't know the half of it. I know what you told your parents - that you didn't see a future with her - yet you got her pregnant a month after I kicked you out so now you're trapped. It would be funny if it wasn't so tragic, for you. You have sunk so low you are living in the gutters of society and you always thought you were better than everyone else. Well you're not - you are the worst person I know and you are hated by so many people it's untrue. Do you know that? Or is your life such a lie now that you think everything's great? It's not and it never will be.

I hope she kicks you out. I hope she sees what a worthless scumbag you are and I hope she throws you out before you do the same to her. I want you to suffer, I want you to be miserable for the rest of your life and wake up every day knowing you threw away the best life you were ever going to have. Sometimes I think about you dying and how I wouldn't go to your funeral. I don't know many people who would.

And breathe. And resume to being outwardly supportive of yours and OWs relationship with our innocent, beautiful children.