A thread to say something you can't in real life!

[Sodthisagain]

To my not so dear sister
Fuck off to the far side of fuck then fuck off some more! I am not the scheming, money swindling bitch you have insinuated I am today and will no longer going to be your doormat to shout at when you are stressed!!
Oh and don't forget fuck off!

There that's better :-)

To my childhood bully, karma exists. Who has the hardworking successful husband and adult children? Who is married to a drug addict and whose daughters are known as the local slags? Who has a successful career and who is a benifit scrounge? Who has a nice own home, car and holidays and who lives in a run down rented shed and has lost her driving licence for drunk driving? Who looks ok for her age and who looks at least ten years older?

Ha fuck you you bitch! Now whose laughing? You got what you deserved for making my childhood hell at home, in school and at my holiday job. I know when you see me you are jealous as he'll. Well good enough you nasty fucker.

Great thread OP.

OMG some of these have made me cry.

To my DDad
I love you with all my heart as I do my mum.
You've both done so much for me over the years and I appreciate it all.
But.... please get mum to the doctors. You cannot keep burying your head in the sand. She needs some help and medication to slow down the dementia.
You doing every little thing for her and covering for her all the time is NOT helping.
Please get her tested properly and get her the help she needs. You won't be able to cope for much longer.
You've already been through operations for your cancer and thank the lord it's all clear. But mum isn't OK now.
Please do what you need to do.

Dear ExH
You are a lazy arse. Your DD has more work ethic than you and she's 17.
Get yourself a proper job. Stop sponging off of others. Earn some money and start treating your DD. You are a delusional, arrogant arsehole!

To the man from miles way.

I liked you perhaps more than I expected to. It was fun while it lasted.

I am not sure if I could have loved you but you didnt give me the choice. Now I am embarassed as you seem to be coming across as a sleaze to other people and I don't think you are deep down; just very confused.

I wish you well but think you need to take care and focus on what is around you not what you think should be around you. Most of all I want you to regret what you gave up...

I love you

To my husband..

Stop talking to that fucking slag on facebook!!!!!!!! Oh by the way I've read every single message!!!!!!!!

To my lovely husband
I hate the necklace! Even though it has our girls' handprints on it; it wasn't picked for me because we'd already bought one for your sister! And she has totally different taste to me: why ON EARTH did you think I would like it?

To my my baby

Ill never know if you were a boy or girl.
But I'd loved you even if it was just for a few days you were in my y life , your daddy didn't want you he only knew after the m/c but I know him in end he'd of helped I hope he'd been part of our life and he a good dad to his girl.
I can imagine you'd be running around now but wasn't meant to be, I'd picked out names for you a girl after a great great grandmother and a boy my best mate and your dad's name . I do n t tell ppl about you not even my bf knows I have the little knitted set I bought the day I found out its hidden away .
Just to say I love you

Thank you for the thread

Dear Dh,
My lovely, departed Mum was right .
All those times I moaned to her about your twattish Mum & how she behaves - my Mum always reassured me that I shouldn't stress ; when my kids got older and wiser they would see for themselves what type of woman your mum was.
Now older , our kids can see, don't want to spend time with your parents and pretty much ever word that comes out if your Mums mouth , grates on them ; like it does me.
I'm not the one looking for problems and causing them... It's your Mum that's weird & problematic .

Dear MiL ,
You're a toxic cunt and I'm glad my kids can spot it as well as I can .

Ah , that's better - thanks for the thread.

To my ex.

FUCK YOU.

You have no idea how you broke me, destroyed every ounce of my self worth. And the worst part is it STILL kills me 7 years on.
I hope you get beaten to within an inch of your life. You deserve nothing.

To DP
I'm sorry I'm a wreck. I'm sorry Ive been a bitch. And I'm sorry that you've lost your rock, your idol. But I don't know how to fix it and make it better. I love you more than you will ever know and I don't deserve you.

Glad in a sad kind of way that I wasn't the only one with things they needed to say.
As for me I wish I could say to my DSis today
Where has the love gone? I thought we had started to build bridges and get closer but all it took was one wrong word from me and you pounced. You always think the worst of me, there is no way even if I wanted to that I could do the things you have warned me about. You and Mum can carry on in your little bubble, you are the golden child and so you can fuck off together.
I am not going to be your scapegoat any more so you fucking bitch go and get a new one to bully.

To SIL i fucking hate you, you drive me fucking mad with your bloody nonsense and your blatant laziness and piss taking!
I am not your friend and i never will be so fucking do one!

To dh,

Being nice to me for one day, texting me all day and telling me you love me won't make up for the fact you have given me or the dc's any attention for years, it won't make everything ok.

To mil I loved and respected you for 15 years you were the one I went to when I needed ssomeone. you always told me I was more of a daughter to you then sil So why you decided to try and split me and DH up by telling those evil lies on our wedding day I can never understand. You admitted you know it was a lie and it was sil ( who iss now nc with you) who told you them you thought it was OK to say those things. You couldn't even bring yourself to say sorry instead accusing me of trying to come between you and your son.
You have since said sorry but the damage has been done. Every time you hug me it makes my skin crawl. But I have pretend its all OK. its not OK its so not OK to say what you did. I can't even think about my wedding day now, I just feel so humiliated. You have shown yourself to be a spiteful, lying and vindictive old hag and I will never forgive you. You broke my heart you have made me feel stupid for ever loving you. You need to count yourself lucky that I let you anywhere near my kids.
I shall continue to be civil for DH and DCs because I love them more than I hate you.

To DH

I will never forget how you took your mothers side over mine. You have since said you were wrong and you let me down but I still doubt your love for me and a can't believe that you didnt have the bollocks to tell her she was wrong.
I have given you the best years of my life and 2 beautiful kids but you didn't have my back. Im not saying I wanted you to fall out with but to let her know that it was unacceptable to do that. What if you believed her, we would be doing DNA test now and our family would broken up.
I know you tried to make it up to me and in time I will feel better.

*sorry for any gramical errors guys but I'm still upset, I lost someone that day

I think I've fallen in love with you. Or, if it isn't love, it's getting there. All consuming obsession. That night was shocking, exhilarating, and wonderful. You're magnificent, and all I can think of is you holding my hand as we lay in your bed.

But I'm married. Married. To the man I have always believed to be the love of my life. And that love hasn't gone away.

I can't tell you any of this, because it isn't fair. You're not to know that two mates messing around after too much wine has turned my entire life upside down, and all the issues are mine, not yours. So the pain is mine. But I will always be your friend.

To FIL
Your one of the most selfish infuriating people who ive ever met! You treat your wife like a piece of shit and because of your shit parenting have seriously impacted on your children's mental health. I think the fact the you decide to go sort out whatever bullshit you have going on abroad leaving your son on his own to run all of the businesses 3 weeks before i give birth is fucking stupid. Youve purposely stalled you could of gone months ago but you like to be centre of attention and have everything run around you. Don't get me started on the fact that you tried to forcibly arrange your other son to be married to a daughter of a business associate of yours. And your mental family keep trying to force your children to marry them!

Fucking wake up and see all 5 of your kids hate you and the 2 eldest are selfish cunts like you.

DSis fucking get of your arse stop blaming the world your wasting your life.

Dear BIL
While I never actually DTD with your wife, I did provide her with an alibi so she could DTD with the "other man". More than once. Yes, I really dislike you that much.

SIL- you are easily the most despisable person I've ever met. You are so arrogant & competitive that you have made my DP grow up to believe he is second best because your parents had to spend all their time dealing with your selfish demands. You think you are the ultimate know all but my rabbit has more intelligence than you do. Also, GROW UP. You are an adult, have been for many years & it's getting boring.

MIL- I wish you would pull your head out of the sand & stick up for me when you know your son doesn't treat me properly, as a result of the way you brought him up. You know its wrong but you don't care. You then expect me to hand over my DS to you so you can parade him around like a show dog. You seem to think that it is me, you & DP as his parents & that you have a say in his life. You don't, you never will & if you continue you will lose him just like you lost contact with DP's other child from a previous relationship. You blame him but it's not his fault, it's yours. I can honestly say that if we weren't together, I would not make the effort to allow you contact with my beautiful boy.

You are behaving like an arse, I think maybe you really are one. You misled me, got me to fall for you, pretended. Why come after a decent woman. You should have stayed with the ones who want the same. You played me and I'm the fool that cared.
I'm crushed but one day I'll be ok again and you'll still be a sad fcuk.
Always trawling for sex, you could have had love.

You tell me everything I need to hear, but not the one thing I want to know.

Not only did you ruin my childhood you have damaged me in ways that damage my family. I am not sure I am ever going to be able to look forward to the future. I am fearful of everything . How can you have given me so much trauma I live like I have post traumatic stress disorder. Simply leaving the house is so difficult I am exhausted. I can't remember so much from my life since you weren't in it. It is called being dis associative, an actual mental disorder. Then I worry that the last word you said to me was I need to see someone as I had lost grip on reality. I haven't I have woken up to the abuse I suffered from both of you as a child. I wish people could see you for what you really are.

After reading these I just want to give you all a big hug, and I'm not a huggy person!

Dear soon to be relegated to acquaintance friend
You are a bitter, miserable, twisted narcissistic Bitch.

I too have feelings. I do not deserve your nasty remarks.

But for the first time in my life I realise I am better than another person and that is YOU!

Using count from a sick, twisted, ducked up family.

I'd rather have nobody than that lot of scum thanks

To my clients
You are all wonderful people, and I love being with you. You make me smile & your loyalty is awesome.
Sometimes, just sometimes I feel unwell too. Sometimes I am sad, sometimes I am having a bad day. I try not to let it show, if one of you ever asked how I was feeling I might actually cry & never stop.
I still think you are all great though

Also I have never met such a petty, arrogant, smug about nothing person IN MY ENTIRE LIFE

I'm too sane, kind and caring for you and INTELLIGENT