dp is really into prostate massages but it just makes me gag

[lexiepix]

Dh has told me how much he wants me to massage his prostate and it is by far his favourite thing sexually. I've read a lot about it, bought some massage tools, but every time I come to give it a go, I just gag and feel like I'm going to throw up. Has anyone overcome this?

Just a thought. Plenty of guys had no problem telling their wives that they think breastmilk is gross and do not want to touch their breasts.

yes, and they would be twats

your point is ?

Don't pooh pooh it, OP

One poster asked how we would feel if guys find oral sex gross. Well i came across a lot of posts saying their husband do not like touching breastmilk.

Lol at the bomb squad coming in to unearth a live shell from an old geezer's arse.

Just for the record I am NOT a prostate massager and whatnot, just have a similar name!!!! I am the North East one. Have had more than one pm asking about what I do

What does breast milk have to do with anal sex play?

Not getting any of these comparisons to be honest.

me neither

the op is repulsed by a particular act

trying to compare it to other random things is nonsensical, unless you think that she should stop making excuses and just get on with it

Feeding a baby is not equal to an optional sexual preference. How can you possibly company the two

*compare

Nope, i think it would be unfair if they get to express their feeling so without guilt but she have to keep it herself. We are always worrying about express our own feelings to guys.

I am not following your last post, blueberry.

It seem guy have no problem telling a women what turn them off (such as touching breast) . . And no she doesn't have to put up with it. She should be able to tell him too without worrying.

I agree with that. Unfortunately a bunch of people then rocked up on the thread apparently telling her that she should just get on with it. Which in general is the message that women are subjected to virtually from birth. Please your man or he might dump you. What with Being Single as a fate worse than death....

Exactly.

Of course the OP shouldn't do anything she doesn't want to sexually. That's a given. End of.

But when she says: it is by far his favourite thing sexually you've got to think he's not going to give up on it just like that. Men aren't like that

@ PetulaGordino re Nice bit of coercive "advice" there. Exactly the kind of thing someone who was sexually abusive might say to their partner

When I said If you don't do it, he'll do it himself when you're not around or (sorry) look around for someone who will that's based on my experience of men.

I'm not trying to coerce, persuade or convince the OP (or anyone). Yes, it would be abusive if someone said that to their partner. I'm not the OP's partner. If he said it, she should run a mile.

I'm simply pointing out that when men have a 'thing'/fetish they don't always behave in a sensible, rational way. Yes, they should be able to manage such desires/impulses, but in practice many struggle to.

I repeat for the avoidance of doubt: no-one should do anything they don't want to do. End of.

Men aren't like that

Well, they can fuck off then. It really is as simple as that.

Men aren't like that

Nice generalisation there.

Like I said upthread, that would imply that the OP and her DH are not suited to each others, not that she should do something that she finds repulsive.

I don't think OP is coming back to the thread anyway.

Im amazed that anyone would want their life partner to perform any sexual activity that they find repulsive.
Im repulsed by some of the man pleasing crap posted on this thread.

If you're not up for prostate massage per se, what about a bit of pegging?
At least then you won't have your head at the 'business end'

*disclaimer - this is a lighthearted post and in no way meant to coerce the OP

'Pegging' ?
Marking my place for this explanatuon

Bloody outstanding post about porn by gatewalker.

This whole thread has been surreal, totally compelling to read.

OP, but really, your whole body and psyche is telling you through your gag reflex that this particular act ain't for you. You should listen to that.

Pegging is woman on man anal sex using a strap on.
Really, really not better.

Thank you, HexBramble

Gatekeeper - what you up to? Pfft!