Me again. ..

[CalmAndConfused]

hi,

I've had several posts on here about mine and my husband's relationship. The last post was because he said we should separate, however we then decided to give it one last go...which part of me feels is just prolonging the inevitable.

Anyway I'm am going out with friends tonight (first time in over a year), and H made comments on the underwear I'm wearing. He always asks if there will be males there if I go places without him...even asking me one time when I was going to a funeral (aparantly I was taking this wrong and he was meaning it as a compliment about him thinking I looked nice ) .

Also he keeps going on about how I mustn't be to late in case the kids wake up...

Is all this normal as it makes me feel like crap and means I can't enjoy my time out as I am clock watching etc

All round yours for a party then Calm?

I'll bring my drill and get that lock changed for you. x

Well done, Calm. I'm breaking out of my lurk to just ask you to do some proper sums on how much your new dog is going to cost on a weekly basis (food, vet bills etc), because on benefits it can get very tight. I know you have a lot invested in the dog as a sign of liberation, but please be sure you can afford it before you choose your puppy - which will soon be a large and hungry dog!

Xwonderful news! Well done! Xxx

Delurking, to say brilliant! Well done, Calm

Did you get hold of WA? They'll be able to put you in touch with good advisors for legal, housing, benefits etc. You may not need them immediately, but you will eventually.

One again, we done! Here's to a happy life (and cake and champagne!)

So so pleased for you! Feels a bit patronising to say well done because this must have taken HUGE courage and I am in awe!

Just checking in again to make sure it's real! He's gone! He's still gone!
I've never been so delighted to be so utterly wrong. I never thought he'd just go! Wow. You must have been giving out some SERIOUS fuck you vibes!

Have just caught up with your thread. Have read it in one go. Wow. Just wow! You are amazing. Have you ANY idea how far you have come? And I understand that you've posted on here more than once in the past..... Just goes to show that each of us knows when the time is right for us to take that step, or to stop fighting the inevitable.
Well done, stay strong, and relish your freedom

Well done, Calm. I'm breaking out of my lurk to just ask you to do some proper sums on how much your new dog is going to cost on a weekly basis (food, vet bills etc), because on benefits it can get very tight. I know you have a lot invested in the dog as a sign of liberation, but please be sure you can afford it before you choose your puppy - which will soon be a large and hungry dog!

Unless of course your new dog is a Chiauahua