Meet the Other Phone. A phone that grows with your child.

Meet the Other Phone.
A phone that grows with your child.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Relationships

Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody

husband wearing my clothes

131 replies

mumpossible · 22/09/2014 17:53

This is my first post under this name. I have been lurking along time but rarely post. So i realise this is a strange first post, but genuinely cannot talk to any one in real life about this.
I have just found out that my husband has been dressing up in my clothes. I'm not sure if it was once or more often,but my feeling is more than once. He took pictures and was masturbating wearing them. I am shocked and confused.we have been together for 15 years and I thought I knew him. I really don't knw what to do with this information.
I don't know if I should tell him i know or not. I can't help wondering who the pictures are for. I get he might want to look at pictures of himself if it is his thing, but pictures of his penis seem more like something he would send.
So my dilemma is do I tell him I know or not?

OP posts:
Thread gallery
5
MrBuscuits · 25/09/2014 14:20

OP, Glad you have been able to resolve this, after all it's just clothes. There may be a way to go, but as shown in previous pictures, some guys can wear skirts as guys, but perception in society links skirts to women, forcing many men down the TV/TS route, unless they really were born in the wrong body. Jayden Smith's generation (Will Smith's son) has no hangups regarding this latest trend. He's in today's Daily Mail in what looks like a jumper dress, but without trousers.

Fashion is always evolving, wind the clock back a few years, men with earrings would have been burnt at the stake. In a few month time, no one will bat an eye.

It's not for everyone, but at least you have been able to come to some sort of resolution. Smile

arowhena · 25/09/2014 18:51

Flowers Your DH has such a brilliant Mrs, you will get through this.

saltnpepa · 25/09/2014 19:30

mumpossible you're a good egg Brew

mumpossible · 25/09/2014 19:43

Aww shucks thanks everyone! It is early days but feeling positive (and you know I'm lucky to have him, he's lovely when not lying - a much nicer person than I am. )

OP posts:
bigkitty2454 · 26/05/2017 21:16

Hello, mumpossible I have a brother that wears female clothing and he has never stopped since he was 5 yrs old. Once they start dressing they dont want to stop. It is a kick of excitement to do it without anyone finding out.
You have to decide if you want to stay with him and let him dress or move on with your life without him. Either way you have to confront him with what you know, so he knows you know all about it. Then you both have to decide if you want to still live together or not. He needs to decide if he wants and needs to continue doing his fantasy or stop, which will be hard to do since we know he likes doing it.

Oh I know this is an older post reply, but drop me a line and let me know whats been going on with you both. Are you still together or not.

RiseandGrind · 27/05/2017 06:34

ZOMBIE THREAD!!!

New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread