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aibu to think this is disgusting?

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knowledgeispower · 20/08/2014 18:07

I recently started online dating and have met up with 2 guys. The first date went okay, there was no spark.

The second guy I met up with was a real sweetheart and we took to each other straight away. We arranged a second date and he stayed at mine. We dtd and it was wonderful. It was so good to feel wanted and desired again. He was really gentle, considerate and was a gent throughout. We had a condom split on the last time (4 tines in all) and I said of get the morning after pill and get the implant refitted. He admitted he's a worrier and I said well if it turned out I was to get pregnant I would always keep it as I couldn't abort for personal reasons. We carried on talking and he said something along the lines of: 'well I'd have to kick you in the cunt'....

I was totally shocked and told him so, he immediately backed down as he could see how disgusted I was. He said: 'do you really think I could do that to you'!

Apart from this comment he has been wonderful, he wants to see me again but I'm unsure!

Wwyd?

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Dontgotosleep · 28/08/2014 06:51

Sorry O.P none of my business but you slept with him again come on, after he more or less well no he did threaten to kill a child you may be having by theatening to kick you in the.. I wont even use the word. You posted for advice and not one person said "Oh give him a another chance", yet you still go back for more and get called a dirty bitch.
There's nothing wrong with casual sex. It's there to be enjoyed. Before I met D.P I just had ONS infact my D.P was supposed to be a ONS. I can understand you're probably lonely and wanting sex you're human, but surely weren't that hard up for a shag. Like I said plenty of other men out there, but what's done is done is done now. You can't unshag him can you, and who am I to try to talk about sexual morales you may think,
Concentrate on yourself and D.D.

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