Threesome advice

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Recently, both DH and I have been thinking of having a threesome with another man. Quite nervous about the idea in actuality but loved the fantasy.

In the last week a man (quite by chance) has entered my life who I have really clicked with. I like him a lot and would really like to be the third person. He has agreed in principle to this.

Can anyone offer any sane and sound advice regarding threesomes?

I'm not a troll and this is a genuine question.

Oops thread had moved on a bit -

Lots of people who are much more eloquent making much better points than me!

I wonder how it tends to work? Do the men take turns or....?

I would have thought that would defeat the o ject avoiur :)

Was one of those private messages from TheVictorian

mind you, he wouldn't be able to use that name since he was banned for sleazing into over sharing women's inboxes

I would imagine he uses a different name now

I have read the thread and don't get what the fuss is about.

Just do it. What's the big deal? Threesomes are quite boring.

Ha ha! the infamous Victorian!
I don't think so.

Mind you, I have nits at the moment and Hedrin is boring too. I might be projecting.

Sorry to ask this, haven't read the entire thread, but is DH Bisexual? Are you comfortable with that?

Really, OP ? You don't fancy a bit of TheVictorian then ? He hasn't been in your inbox already...under another name (of yours) ?

'Mumsnet isn't a sex site. Please could we keep it that way. The interweb is stuffed full of people fucking in all kinds of ways. Go there.'

Love this ^^

Never had a mmf but I have had many mmff and mmmmffff and everything in between!

It is loads of fun but you do need to make sure your dh is totally up for it. I am not sure I could do it with someone I was forming a connection with- for me that makes it very personal.

Feel free to pm me

Hahaha namechangaroonie, well said!

Namechange. I'll be 40 next year and my sex life is showing no signs of slowing down. thinks back to amazing orgasm earlier on. (massive smile)
If a sexual thread offends you. Why open it. o.p didn't force you to read it

Help! I need some advice on how to play the piano, plant trees and drive a racing car. Can anyone recommend a good place to go?

Please don't suggest a music, gardening or car forum as I'd rather have a more balanced view. Did I mention I'm meeting some people from the music, gardening and motoring scene IRL?

Hope you and DP enjoy your threesome OP

As you posted this in the relationships board my answer would only be advice on whether you should go ahead and what effect it will have on your relationship, none of those questions we can answer for you.

I can tell you that I've been there, done that, years ago while in my 20's and not in a committed and loving relationship. I find the reality was okay. Nothing I'd want to repeat in my marriage (and nothing my husband would either).

I would also ask yourself WHY you feel you need this. Are you not getting what you need from the marriage? Is this only about sex or is it deeper than that? Are you going to be okay if this all backfires?

I have reported this thread to be moved because even though I gave a relationship related answer, you don't actually want relationship opinions, just sex advice... which this particular board isn't designed for (IMO - MNHQ shall decide).

I have only skimmed this thread until about halfway through so far, but I have to say that I was pulled short on the (previously-unknown) phrase 'mushroom stamp' . On looking it up, I call bullshit. As if some male third party would behave like an alpha territory-marking dominator- what crap. They'd be nervously appreciating being invited into something way beyond their reasonable expectations, and prepared to bolt at any time...

Right, off to read the thread properly...

I so want the OP to burst into song.

"There are worse things I could do...than go with a boy. Orrrr two..." :o

Look, at least this thread is under relationships - I learned a sufficient amount to slightly concern DH on style and beauty a little while ago!

Not sure a threesome is ever something I could honestly consider (I have enough trouble win DH seeing my flabby and wobbly birthday suit).

But bloody hell - there is so, so much intolerance on this site now Just because people's views differ, it doesn't make one right and the other wrong. And it's not just views on sex - it's all sorts of things. Getting a bit fed up of it tbh

People have suggested that anyone interested in slightly unusual sexual practices should look elsewhere on the internet. Trouble is, the ones I've seen just seem very seedy and pervy. When this sort of discussion happens on Mumsnet it can be amusing, shocking, interesting and educational (mushroom stamping - OMG). I like seeing people's different points of view, I love it when the piss taking starts, I don't like the personal attacks. It's so much more than crude sex talk. Of course not everyone wants to read stuff like this - I'm not interested in about 80% of Mumsnet content, so I just don't bother with it.