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DH said no more tattoos

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ICanSeeTheSun · 15/05/2014 22:52

My vision is to turn my back into a canvas, I believe tattoo are art, so far I have 4 on my back.

I love them and it is a part of me.

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Twinklestein · 21/05/2014 11:17

'mediocre commercially drawn artwork'

I have to agree. I don't personally judge people who have tattoos, they can do whatever they like. But that doesn't mean I have to think they look nice or well-executed or even attractive.

It's more cartoon than art.

FindoGask · 21/05/2014 11:54

Nobody says you have to think anything, Twinkle.

SelectAUserName · 21/05/2014 12:05

I think (as a non-tattooed person) that phoenix is lovely. I love the colours which seem more vibrant than many tattoos I've seen - I haven't seen many with so much focus on orange/yellow and I really like it. (I'm sure it's old hat in the ink world but I'm not really 'up' on that!) I don't think it's crudely drawn at all, but to be fair I struggle to draw a stick man so I'm in awe of anyone who can produce recognisable artwork.

In the 90s I used to do glass-painting, using stencils and designs I would trace to make up for my lack of freehand drawing skill, and that reminds me of some of the designs I'd use on roundels or mirrors. I love the symbolism of the phoenix.

Not that it matters a jot what I think of it!

Twinklestein · 21/05/2014 12:13

It was rhetorical Findo... as in 'it doesn't follow that..'

angel1976 · 21/05/2014 12:25

Surely we cannot control how people feel about something, the only thing we can control is our reaction to it?

My (relatively new) partner only started getting tattoos at the ripe old age of 48 after I met him. Mid-life crisis and all... Hmm He now has four. He knows how I feel about them (I have a very small discreet tattoo myself done at 19, I'm 34 now, which he terms my 'tramp stamp'! Grin), which is I'm alright with them in general but I do not like them on the face or anywhere that 'shows' too much. Even his stepdad who has quite a lot of tattoos said not to get them on his forearms as he always regretted those... So at the moment, his tattoos are all on his upper arms, which are easily covered if need be.

If he decides to get more tattoos and somewhere more 'visible', he knows I won't be too happy (I come from a culture where generally they are frowned upon due to a societal association with them to a sub-culture, think 'mafia'!) but I can't control what he does. I can make my views know and if he wants to make me happy, he knows where NOT to get them so he's planning to cover his upper arms, chest and back... Hmm And if I don't like them? He's dumped! Grin

deepinthewoods · 21/05/2014 12:50

beyond- exuse me- no-where have I personally attacked you- your words are well out of order

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And i dont give half a fuck if some judgemental twat thinks its "mediocre" or "commercially drawn"."

BeyondTheLimitsOfAcceptability · 21/05/2014 12:56

You havent personally attacked me, neither have i personally attacked you.

MultipleMama · 21/05/2014 13:14

Haha. Yeah, ds1 loves colouring our tattoos in especially DH's. DH also lets him free design - basically just draw all over his bare stomach! It's a lovely bonding experience for them :)

DH has also spent many a weekend drawing on ds1's arm/s (he uses body paint marker pens & face paint pens) at his request to look like DH. Ds1 likes to walk around proudly showing everybody. One woman thought we actually tattooed him, her face was quite priceless! Grin

DownstairsMixUp · 21/05/2014 15:38

Rofl at that tattoo being everywhere. If you take a design such as the phoenix above, the artist will take the idea and put their own twist on it. I took a photo of a sand timer tattoo with this will pass written on it as a template, my tattooist made it more what I'd like. It looks nothing like the original. Again deep if you want to debate you might need some basic knowledge to back up the things you've come out with.

RandomInternetStranger · 21/05/2014 15:48

I'm on a forced tattoo break at the moment being pregnant. I was in the middle of having one redesigned and added to but it's on hold till the little minion is out and I have a few more planned for after too. Well I have to get this one's name seeing as I have my daughter's, and then a couple of others I want too.

MultipleMama · 21/05/2014 19:28

I've been debating having another - one for the kids. We always tell the kids "we love you to pluto and back" so I want something to represent that.

I have two designs and so unsure which I like best. On which descriptions do you like best;

Tattoo 1) A row of planets with a rocket going around pluto as circling the planets.

Or

Tattoo 2) Cartoon version of pluto holding a rocket balloon.

RandomInternetStranger · 21/05/2014 19:42

I once saw a picture of a Dad who had his child's drawing tattood on him & thought that was a lovely idea.

I've got my daughter's name is a fancy swirly script with little hearts around it & will get a matching one with this one's name if it's a girl, or a slightly more boyish design if it's a boy.

I also have a big black faded blob sun/moon/cross/peace/infinity/light/dark/ying yang/my name/Take That symbol on my bum I did at 16 which is dreadful but I love it because it was me & everything about my life back then, my first time away from home, first freedom, it is symbolic. I have a domestic violence awareness ribbon as the body of a butterfly to symbolise my freedom from a 12 year hell, an eye of horus to ward off the bad vibes from my ex when he was putting me through hell, "Enough. Believe" in Arabic to remind me enough of the pain, enough punishing myself, enough bad time, I am enough, believe in myself, believe it will get better, believe in karma. I have a chinese symbol with the initial of a lost baby but I founf it too painful to keep so I covered it in cherry blossoms and a flying bird to symbolise my blossoming out of that pain and setting his soul free to fly, as well as myself, I have a butterfly which doesn't mean anything, I just thought it was pretty but I'm having that modified, and a few other little unimportant doodles. I'm planning more of various importance and symbolism. Think is I don't care if others don't like them, because they all mean something to me, they are all important to me and serve a purpose to me, no one else has to like them. In fact no one in my life, even my parents, best friend or ex husband know what the Arabic or Chinese mean. It's about me, not anyone else.

Mckayz · 21/05/2014 20:02

I want something for my DC too. DD is called Rosalie so I thought a rose, DS1 loves planes so maybe a plane. No idea for ds2. Unless I can think of something to represent all of them.

Mckayz · 21/05/2014 20:06

Random your tattoos all sound lovely. Lots of feelings in them.

I have a duran duran tattoo. Despite being born after they were around I love them. It's fairly cheesy I guess but I love it.

MultipleMama · 21/05/2014 20:54

DH has a :) face in his thigh that he did himself. You'd think one of the kids had done it haha.

I have back corset skeleton piece that has spiders, bats, flowers. All in a gothic style. It represents showing that there's more to me thab meets the eye, that I may have a few skeletons in my closest but I won't change who I am and that I'm just as weird on the inside than I am out.

I have my dog potrait on my left foot and a wolf potrait on my right. I love wolves and my dog! :) I have a black & grey horror sleeve (right forearm) and more bats/wolves sleeve (left forearm). And one of my favourites; a vampire pumpkin with wings Grin

A few more that I can't be bothered to list! Grin I like the idea of the kids drawing a design :)

NoArmaniNoPunani · 21/05/2014 21:05

Mine are just pretty patterns with flowers and lace and lots of colour. Sounds boring but I love them

DownstairsMixUp · 21/05/2014 21:35

Loving the sound of all your tattoos, I want to see pics now!

DS number 2 is due in September, I have ds in a heart and rose on my arm and am planning a flower and stopwatch with the time DS2 is born on it with his name somewhere over my knee once i've recovered from the birth can't wait!

MultipleMama · 21/05/2014 21:46

Downstairs That sounds unique and pretty :)

wickedwitchofwaterloo · 22/05/2014 09:37

Only one of my tattoos has meaning and its the smallest and most hidden. The rest are film/music/pop culture based.
I have an Optimus Prime chest piece, a Cabinet of Dr Caligari sleeve, An American Werewolf in London sleeve, David Lynch on my calf, skeleton and script on my shin. Skulls and a Sylvia Plath quote on my ribs, a rose on my neck/throat, Reservoir Dogs piece on my thighs and an Annie Oakley quote across the backs of my legs.

I'm pretty sure I've forgotten some thou!

BeyondTheLimitsOfAcceptability · 22/05/2014 09:46

I'd love to see pictures! I have a meaning-nothing sun and stars on my back, I designed it in my gcse science lessons!

We need a tattoo quiche. so we can stop hijacking this thread. Sorry Op
Where would it go? In style and beauty? Grin

Mckayz · 22/05/2014 09:52

I want a sandtimer/hourglass tattoo as DH works away. It would symbolise all the time I spend waiting for him to come home.

I haven't found anything I quite like so I might print off a few pictures and uses bits from each and make it my own.

MultipleMama · 22/05/2014 10:41

wickedwitchofwaterloo - I am in envy of your Optimus prime piece! My son would love you!

I really want a Nosferatu piece on my ribs. I have a few designs and have been thinking about it for ages but I'm sold on the placement. I don't know if it would be too close to my back piece (similar to photo but different style skeleton and gothic detail).

beyond - My guess would be style and beauty.

BeyondTheLimitsOfAcceptability · 22/05/2014 11:05

Ta da!

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/style_and_beauty/2086557-For-ladies-that-ink

MultipleMama · 22/05/2014 11:16

Ahh, I just made one too, beyond haha then I saw yours so I've reported mine to be deleted! :)

BeyondTheLimitsOfAcceptability · 22/05/2014 11:22
Grin