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Relationships

Whoops! Slept with one of my best friends!

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MoonshineWashingLine · 13/04/2014 11:16

Known my very good friend for nearly 14 years, nothing has ever happened before but then we've never been single at the same time before...

We were pretty drunk but not steaming. I have just come out of a long term relationship (and have one dd) and my ex was verbally/emotionally abusive. I have been single for just a month. My friend didn't take advantage of me or anything, I feel anything but vulnerable, in fact I feel pretty good :)

Plus it was really good, passionate sex that I haven't experienced in quite some time!

I do fancy my friend quite a bit but it is a bit soon and he has a quite a history of relationships amongst our friends, as do I! So I am wary of moving too fast and I also don't want to scare him off. We both knew what we were doing was probably inappropriate but we did it anyway.

Has anyone else been in a similar situation? We get on so well and I don't want to risk messing up our friendship but at the same time I think we would be a great couple if we actually got it together. I don't really know how he feels though....

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MoonshineWashingLine · 15/04/2014 16:06

Ok been texting all afternoon sorting out Friday plans... not said anything suggestive yet. Should I ask him if he wants stay at mine? Is that too forward?

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Raskova · 15/04/2014 17:32

Do it! Why not!

Raskova · 15/04/2014 18:02

Again tho, that may read as more of a booty call. You should make it clear if you are after a relationship

MoonshineWashingLine · 15/04/2014 18:15

Maybe I could say something along those lines face to face... if he wants to stay round then that's a start I suppose.

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MoonshineWashingLine · 15/04/2014 20:00

Well..... I sent it! Just waiting for reply now... jesus, I haven't felt like this in a while!

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BateKush · 15/04/2014 20:38

Read this on train home this afternoon and now marking place, can't wait to hear what he says!

BitOutOfPracticeAgain · 15/04/2014 20:44

Ooo! Can't wait to hear reply

Raskova · 15/04/2014 20:46

Can I be proper nosy and ask what u sent him?

MoonshineWashingLine · 15/04/2014 20:53

I said 'Cool, are you staying at (friends) house? If not and you need a place to crash you're welcome to stay at mine? I live in walking distance from town :)'

That's not too bad is it?

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MoonshineWashingLine · 15/04/2014 20:54

He's not replied yet though... :/

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Raskova · 15/04/2014 21:03

He's probably reading the text over and over wondering what to say! There's probably a similar post on dadsnet. Haha

CuntyBunty · 15/04/2014 21:07

No, that's too indifferent. You need a text along the lines of: "I had a great time shagging you the other night. Want to do it again on Friday? and I'll ride you like a bitch from Hell."

Raskova · 15/04/2014 21:16

Yeah... That would do it

MoonshineWashingLine · 15/04/2014 21:18

Haha, well he's still not replied so I've either scared him off or he's stewing or he's genuinely not seen the text... maybe if I don't get a reply by ten pm I'll rephrase it somewhat...

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Raskova · 15/04/2014 21:23

This is where iPhones are great because you can see if they read it

TheNightIsDark · 15/04/2014 21:25

I love these threads

CuntyBunty · 15/04/2014 21:27

Me too

TheVictorian · 15/04/2014 21:28

MoonshineWashingLine that's a good opening as it leaves him to decide without you seeming too pushy.

MoonshineWashingLine · 15/04/2014 22:02

Still nothing! Ffs...

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Raskova · 15/04/2014 22:23

Have you rephrased it???

MoonshineWashingLine · 15/04/2014 22:25

Noo, do you think i should? I'm uncertain now. It can't be that hard to a text to reply to!

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Raskova · 15/04/2014 22:42

I'd wait til morning and say something like

hi, hope I'm not reading too much into your lack of reply. No awkwardness necessary. something about naughty

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Raskova · 15/04/2014 22:43

Not sure what happened there... Followed by something naughty...

MoonshineWashingLine · 15/04/2014 22:56

Hehe, will see what happens. I'm off to bed shortly so hopefully he'll grow some balls (fairly sure he's got some!) and send me a reply

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MoonshineWashingLine · 15/04/2014 23:25

Well that's a bit meh. He finally replied saying 'aw cheers :) we'll see how it goes on the night.'

I'm not even replying till morning now... maybe I do need to be a bit more up front! Hmm... or maybe I'll just back off for a bit :/

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