Oh fuck, I really need a hand holding tonight.

[HeadFairy]

Just found out that dh is cheating on me.... He's been out on the lash tonight and yet again he texted to say he's staying up in town. I texted him to ask if he was having an affair, he went all coy on me, pretending he didn't know what I was talking about. But I found his online dating profile on his iPad and his browsing history had searches for 5 star hotels in Dublin. We're not planning to go to Dublin. He's just said he's coming home to talk.... And now I'm shitting myself.

How are things

No real advice HF but I just wanted to say how brilliantly calm an collectedly you dealt with AF being horrible and labouring the same point in a condescending way, again and again. AF may be right but a little tact never hurt anyone. Good luck OP

Having a bit of a boring sunday evening are you, just ?

Hi AF, I think if you think of a counsellor/advisor sitting opposite someone looking for some perspective and you read back your posts, you will see they are aggressive and condescending. If you don't think so then maybe we agree to disagree.

If you have a little think about why someone waited 2 days to have a goady dig at an individual poster, it might help us to agree to disagree.

sits back and pours more

Wow, it sounds like you are thinking too deeply about this. I don't know you and have no axe to grind. I only read the thread today. The rest of the thread was quite measured. In my view you were v aggressive and belittling in the first half. As I said read back your posts. You seemed to calm down later on. I don't disagree with what you said. I just thought it could have been said with a bit more tact.

Then report the posts or use the private messaging system, don't reopen a quiet thread to take issue with an individual's posting style.

If you read my post you will see I was offering support for the OP who I felt coped very well with aggression. I never said your posts were in need of reporting. You seem to be very easily offended. Also you do not tell me what I can and cannot post.
I will not be responding any more as this is going nowhere. Maybe you should have a think about why you are so prickly. If you read back your posts and are happy with them, then carry on. It is a forum for views.