You also usefully forget he has a secret Skype account......another thing to brush under that rug.
It's not a secret Skype account - OP knows about it.....?
You can call me closed minded all you want, it won't change my opinion or my assessment of the situation.
I like a bit of irony.
I've already reported your above attack on a poster calling them a witch, absolutely no need for personal attacks....this here: I have to say, I'd MUCH prefer my partner watch porn than be a nasty judgmental witch that got kicks out of telling someone in distress how 'perfect' they are.
Which poster is it directed at for it to be a "personal" attack?
Yes different, and remember the word extensive Vic, do you know exactly what he has got, no, and I doubt the OP has either as she clearly isn't into it.
Do you know either? Seems you are making just as many, in fact, more, assumptions. Quite ludicrous ones at that....see next quote....
I'm deducing from different and she porn` that it no doubt does involve a degree of pain and restraint,
Well done Sherlock, lol ... deducing and no doubt......many many assumptions all bundled into three strong words. There is a massive spectrum of sexual proclivities - babying, dressing up certain ways, foot fetishes, food fetishes, you name it, there is a sexual fetish for it. Doesn't have to be dark and sinister. And just because I'm aware of them, doesn't mean I've a particular penchant for any of the above either.
again Vic, my beliefs, you don't have to agree. Again, I never said rape, you did, like all the other horrible words you keep insinuating posters are using when they haven't.
One minute you are talking facts, then next "beliefs". Pick a route and stick to it. Facts or beliefs. Coz they are quite different things. And yes, doing something sexual against a woman's will, is either rape, or sexual assault. Please do look up the definition in law. It has been VERY clearly defined, and for good reason. And watching rape or sexual assault has it's own set of laws and potential charges. You'd be right to be concerned, if indeed that was the case.
I think it's time we left this alone, I will never agree with your views and you mine, that's fine, you need to calm down and realise that not everyone is A ok with a partner who does this sort of thing.
I think you need to calm down and stop being patronising. It's not helping your argument one iota.
I do very much dislike the ownership and herd mentality on here; that just because someone has posted on a public forum, they are entitled to be kicked about, judged, and persecuted. It's really not in the spirit of the place, and isn't particularly helpful, or insightful. Who do you think you are helping by behaving like this? I do hope the OP is okay, and has found some help and support here.