Support for Spook

[Janstar]

Continuing from the 'help' thread....

How are you today, Spook?

Hi Sobernow.Do you think there is an element of me only wanting him back because I can't have him? The two of them certainly don't think their relationship is going to break up. They are still together against all odds after all. Do you think there is an element of the hardship that may make their realtionship stronger? Could they be clinging to one another because they are the only ones who "understand"? Am I being totally naive thinking their relationship can't last. Maybe their love is so strong that no-one else will ever get a look in? Does anyone know statistically the incidence of this kind of relationship lasting? Clutching at straws now I know but I did try and press him yesterday to tell me how serious it was.Do they still get as much pleasure from each other now they have been discovered.I told him it would really help my healing process if I knew.And it would at least stop me imagining that he was going to see the error of his ways and rush back into my arms. Under duress he said yes-it was as serious as ever.

Spook, I am starting a new thread to replace this, as it is getting slow to load