The Dating game - welcome all daters to the DATING THREAD 70!!!

[girliefriend]

Thought it was my turn to start the thread!!

[Blossomflowers]

jesy you like football? men will love that. I am an avid sports hater, much to the disgust of my X, ha

[scornedwoman67]

hi ladies
Just having a quick catch-up. Will read thoroughly over the weekend and update as I have a 2nd date with Traindriver tomorrow. blossom I hope he doesn't stand you up..but if it starts making you unhappy, make him do the running from now on. Let us know how it goes.

[LoisPuddingLane]

I just got this, which is a slightly different variation on usual first messages Wow Impressive ! What about some some mint tea, cinnamon coffee, or a banana chocolate shake to start? Which is clearly supposed to get the response What????? to get a conversation going.

Clever. But I'm not falling for it.

[jesy]

Yeah I do I don't really understand it lol
But as we went on last week I could see him watching me as I watched the match.

[Blossomflowers]

Thanks scorned You are right, I have convinced myself he will not turn up so can't be dissappointed then.

[jesy]

Well Sunday off , he not said out but saw a comment on Twitter
Why do I do it
I could be over reacting n it a bloke bravado th I g I mean all men look as us girls look.

[Blossomflowers]

Well my intuition was spot on, MrSA has cancelled said his he is finishing late and will be too tired by the time he got here. I have replied that if he really wanted to make it happen he would and asked him to be honest and asked him if has he lost interest, he assured me not but I think actions speak louder than words don't they.He has just sent me a long text saying he really underestimated the time he has blah blah and really likes me and enjoys our time tog. Sorry for being a pain.So how to reply? Your thoughts please

[jesy]

Blossom
I wish I knew what to say I am sorry only dipped in n out of thread but realistically how much time can he spend with you

[Blossomflowers]

Not much apparently.

[jesy]

Maybe it was just a bloke comment as tonight he texted saying are the legs out on Sunday sexy ?
I'd saved 20 quid fro n wages to get a nice dress for weekend hope I'm reading to much into it as usual

[jesy]

Blossom
I wish I knew w hat to say , I've not been dating long so I am crap at it lol

[TalisaMaegyr]

"I would expect more effort from someone that really like me, as you say you do. If I can't be higher on the list of priorities at this stage, it's never going to get the chance to develop further."

[Blossomflowers]

love it talisa I presume that was for me?

[TalisaMaegyr]

Yes, yes Blossom, sorry!

I was concentrating on not writing "shape up or ship out, motherfucker"

[SoftKittyWarmKitty]

Oh god Blossom, we all know how to pick 'em, don't we?! Not sure how I'd respond to that but I wouldn't want someone coming over that late anyway, as it'd feel a bit like a booty call. I know it's not in your case though, but you're right, he needs to make time for you. I've forgotten his circumstances but why can't he take you for an evening out, rather than just come over after work? Has he suggested an alternative date to tonight? Maybe reply with something like 'Actions speak louder than words, so why don't you give me a call when you have time for a proper date?'

Well, after not hearing from him all week, Mr Coffee Shop has text about an hour ago. He's asked how I am then told me about his last day at work today (he just finished there to start a new job). I'm not sure what to reply. I know he's been on dating sites this week (as have I) and I've felt he's gone cold on me recently - I haven't seen him for nearly three weeks and I've had the feeling he's keeping me hanging in case he can't find anyone better. Any suggestions what to reply? Needs to be casual I think. It doesn't help that both my parents have been ill recently - mum is awaiting a dementia diagnosis and my dad has had a suspected mini stroke today, so I've got a lot to deal with atm.

[Blossomflowers]

talisa fucking hilarious, having a few glasses of wine so maybe hide my phone in case I send that one. Feeling a little sad though, stupid really as not know him that long, so cute though and great sex.
soft you right too, sorry I am not giving advise am obviously rubbish, oh honey so sorry to hear about your parents.
I have had such a shit week with work I really needed a nice night tonight, I think I need to find someone who will have time for me.

[Blossomflowers]

oh and to top it all just thought I would check my messages on POF, guess who is online, he said when I metioned before that he always showed up as online but he has not shown up all day until tonight. I beginning to think I am too trusting

[SoftKittyWarmKitty]

Isn't he meant to be working Blossom?

[jesy]

Blossom
The guy I was seeing before Mr IT said he'd not been on there but
Showed up lots I believed him .
Mr It texted just saying was I ok as thought I was going to show to mural mate's bday drinks

[Blossomflowers]

I beginning to think I have been a fool.
So jesywas he on there?

[dippinmytoe]

blossom to me it's a red flag. As I explained earlier , I am not free to.meet people easily... but .. if I really liked someone , I would find a way to meet up. I too am drinking wine , as my date stil hasn't contacted !!

[jesy]

He is and that was fine but I stupidly looked on his Twitter page n well there was a hint he was seeing some one older n I thought it might be me but a later one suggested he had seem older women in town.
I hope I'm over reacting, as this morning he was texting asking how I got on with new job.
He rely nice n good looking and I do wonder if it's a case of let's fu k a fatty but then y ask why I didn't turn up at mutal mate do

[jesy]

Mr It is on site but not often

[Blossomflowers]

cheers dipp
I have not replied to his text. If he likes me as much he say he does then he needs to make some effort.
jesy luckily don't do twitter or FB