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Ex won't move out

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snowshepherd · 03/12/2013 14:16

Hi, we split up a month ago. Been together for 8 years. Lived together for 6 years. Need some advice on how to get my ex to fuck off.
The house is mine and my ExP hasn't ever paid directly in to the house. Although she has paid bills on occasion (not mortgage or home improvements).
The relationship ended and I gave her 2 weeks to sort herself out. But it's now been a month, I'm pissed off.
I don't want to get her in trouble but is it worth contacting the police, changing locks, putting her belongings in a skip?(more of a threat but might be fun).

Anyone have experience of this or any advice to get her to fuck off?
Thanks

OP posts:
passedgo · 07/12/2013 18:37

if this were a female we'd have no qualms about her chucking the bastard out that very minute.

That's simplistic and patronising.

If OP was that traumatised by this he wouldn't already be dating. There is more to this than meets the eye - it is a relationship breakdown and involves than OP and his wounded ego.

DoYouLikeMyBaubles · 07/12/2013 18:56

No actually it isn't, it's the truth. If you find the truth patronising then that's your problem.

Male cheats on woman, won't leave the house, we'd be lynching him.

People react in different way to trauma. People very often go and seek comfort and sex from other people after things like this. Good on him for realising early on that life goes on and a cheat is not worth thinking about again.

passedgo · 07/12/2013 19:00

The truth isn't patronising. The truth is something we rarely know. People are patronising.

DoYouLikeMyBaubles · 07/12/2013 19:05

Well thanks for that insight Hmm

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