Should I be threatened by a vibrator

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Basically I think I am getting side-lined due to a vibrator and today increased that fear.

To cut a long story short, I have a rather high libido and I am aware of this and try to control it. My GF wasn't feeling great this morning (flu/cold) but I was rather horny. I decided against making this obvious as I could tell she wasn't in the mood....very snappy with me, telling me she feels like crap etc and decided to pleasure myself. Subsequently I have found out she decided to do this to herself aswell after I left for work.

Am I being paranoid, but both of us pleasuring ourselves in the morning at different times surely isn't right. If we both wanted to have that 'sensation' surely we could have shared it...this isn't the first time this has happened.

Any advice would be welcome.

I'm not a 'non-believer' in the G spot.

I simply know what the science says. It doesn't exist the way we were once told.

That doesn't mean you couldn't feel different types of orgasm depending on where you're stimulated. As is obvious.

I just don't get the need to patronize on either side of the debate. I'm sure the silent majority are getting off on it nicely, though, so job done.

Offred, perhaps you have left your vibrator up there ? It's a common mistake, don't call the plumber just yet

too busy

LRD - my point was that it is relevant to the thread because the idea of the g spot and orgasms through PIV may well be what is causing what the OP originally posted about... May also just be she had a cold...

Well I wonder how the tone of this thread would have been if the OP had been a woman complaining about her male partner turning her down in favour of a wank.
It wouldn't have been so snidely and with so many digs at the OP that's for sure.

Oh... Perhaps that is the problem... Although it was spewing some dirty black and acrid smelling ming earlier... It may have turned rancid...

Mist The whole bit about the "tell tale glow" just made me more interested in if the OP believes he is Mr Grey what the relationship set up is !

Ask him, Schro

he might have finished what he was doing by now

I do see that offred. Though I do wonder if the OP has perhaps found a, ahem, solution by now.

I'm sure the op and many others may have found a solution in this thread! Ha ha!

Some female porn stars produce, direct, distribute their own movies, ie. they are in control of everything; with certainity they are not being coerced.
Porn is a quick release, you know what you want and don't have to worry about pleasuring someone.

I don't think anyone here would be making fun of DW if her DH was not interested in sex with her but favoured porn.

When it comes to sex if one person is not happy or starts to feel threatened then it's time to stop whatever it was be it porn, toys, etc.

OP if you are not happy talk to your partner. Tell her how you feel.

Not sure how 'ie' works there?

How does that follow?

Don't get me wrong, I would love the idea that someone couldn't ever be coerced into anything, but I fear it is a little off-base.

Where is the OP? .

Selks- to be fair it was quite a helpful thread until the op said she guessed that the partner had used her vibrator because if the glow she had....when she arrived at work. Come on !!!!

I got the impression the OP was female and has a girlfriend.