Should I be threatened by a vibrator

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Basically I think I am getting side-lined due to a vibrator and today increased that fear.

To cut a long story short, I have a rather high libido and I am aware of this and try to control it. My GF wasn't feeling great this morning (flu/cold) but I was rather horny. I decided against making this obvious as I could tell she wasn't in the mood....very snappy with me, telling me she feels like crap etc and decided to pleasure myself. Subsequently I have found out she decided to do this to herself aswell after I left for work.

Am I being paranoid, but both of us pleasuring ourselves in the morning at different times surely isn't right. If we both wanted to have that 'sensation' surely we could have shared it...this isn't the first time this has happened.

Any advice would be welcome.

I am clearly too innocent. I thought this was about two women.

Gosh.

Well that told me

A) I need a new vibrator < checks back in thread to see how to see if op used brand name>
B) my orgasms fall short...my glow lasts a fraction of the time of others...feel quite cheated!

Maybe you're bad in bed.

mamma lol!!! Its those "g" spot orgasms that do it.

Oh now you're just showing off

ha ha!

Err... There is no good evidence at all to suggest the g-spot actually exists. It appears to be a myth created by journalists.

There is however a lot of pressure on women to be satisfied by penetrative sex, whilst it is nice, there is no evidence at all for vaginal orgasms and no discovered mechanism in the vagina for providing orgasm. Some women may have clitoral orgasms if their clitoris is stimulated during PIV sex...

Read this please yes, I think she is lying about orgasming through PIV and is masturbating to achieve an actual orgasm

I feel this thread may have got more serious than perhaps the OP intended.

But I dunno. I know g-spot is a myth and I know PIV is no good for many of us, but for some of us it is good. No reason to assume someone is faking IMO.

Offred not true at all. I have deep orgasms through penetrative sex and they are "g" spot ones. Lots of women do.

If you don't then fine but you cant presume they don't exist just because you havnt experienced them.

No, they don't. There is nothing in the anatomy of the vagina capable of producing an orgasm. It is pretty certainly physically impossible.

OP has talked about intercourse but not PIV.

If this post had been started by the woman in question and she was anonymously telling us that this bloke gives her two orgasms through PIV, then I might be inclined to believe her

I'm not presuming they don't exist because I haven't had one btw but because it has been studied and there is no credible evidence to support it. It has been talked about by journalists a lot though...

Some women may have clitoral orgasms through PIV.

Have you never found your "g" spot then offred. What about those women who can ejaculate from "g" spot stimulation. Do you think that doesn't happen too?

The definition of intercourse is the same as PIV.

I can't believe I'm getting into this.

However.

offred, I would think it is perfectly possible to require stimulation somewhere other than the clitoris to have an orgasm. The research doesn't mean that's impossible. It means you can't expect someone necessarily to have an orgasm through PIV. That's why it's often not so great for women.

"There is nothing in the anatomy of the vagina capable of producing an orgasm."

There's something in the anatomy of MY vagina that is capable of producing an orgasm.

"It is pretty certainly physically impossible."

Physically impossible, except for those women who regularly have them.

And no, it's not clitoral stimulation. I can tell the difference.

What is 'sorting herself out' please?

No, I don't think the vibrator is a threat (you can always take the batteries out), but your relationship may require some honest talking.

Btw, I did not think that having PIV sex ment that you could not also enjoy masturbation? One does not preclude the other. I'm told.

But you obviously havnt had one otherwise you would not say that they don't exist. They do though.

Thank you Join. Glad im not the only one on here that has them regularly. It would be a shame.

There is a school of thought that believes female ejaculation is simply having a rather nice piss.

Some women can give the appearance of ejaculation when they have a clitoral (the only female type known to exist) orgasm... Not sure what your point is? Journalist convinced you it must be g-spot because you ejaculated?

(This is not the same as saying the G-spot 'exists' in the same way the clitoris does, only that it's quite possible to have an orgasm that you attribute to stimulation 'up there' because, after all, during PIV it's pretty hard not to find both are stimulated. And now I am blushing and bowing out.)