Should I be threatened by a vibrator

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Basically I think I am getting side-lined due to a vibrator and today increased that fear.

To cut a long story short, I have a rather high libido and I am aware of this and try to control it. My GF wasn't feeling great this morning (flu/cold) but I was rather horny. I decided against making this obvious as I could tell she wasn't in the mood....very snappy with me, telling me she feels like crap etc and decided to pleasure myself. Subsequently I have found out she decided to do this to herself aswell after I left for work.

Am I being paranoid, but both of us pleasuring ourselves in the morning at different times surely isn't right. If we both wanted to have that 'sensation' surely we could have shared it...this isn't the first time this has happened.

Any advice would be welcome.

Cross-post.

I apologize sincerely, doctrine. I can't imagine what made me bring up something so painful and unpleasant on a thread where our business is the erotic chat.

I know someone who has organs with no touch, just snogging etc. beat that! Sex basically never isolates the vaginal Chanel whether it has loads of nerve ending etc. is irrelevant. Still possible to orgasm through willy in vagina sex. Vibrator is quick and easy though...

I actually think it is an exceptionally damaging myth tbh. Designed to promote male superiority.

Bloody love mumsnet

S'alright, LRD.

Now, a light sabre style vibrator would be threatening, I think.

Especially if it had the swoosh sound effects.

Lol!!

But yes, have said repeatedly, perfectly possible to have a clitoral orgasm through PIV, nipple stimulation or simply psychological stimulation etc...

Get cross about the g spot myth because it is used to trap women into deeply unsatisfying penis centric sex lives...

Yeah, you're probably right there offred. But also damaging to get over-earnest, I think. TBH I really doubt anyone having half-decent sex is in a mood to analyse precisely where the sensation comes from.

Read the Anne Koedt article, it explains why it is a damaging myth.

Ah, so women have to be quiet about their own experiences because they might promote a "myth" that promotes male superiority?

Just seen the light sabre post. Does that mean it's not normal DH glows faintly green in the dark? I bloody knew he was lying when he said 'is no trouble, wife, all Russians is holiday in Chernobyl'.

Chernobyl indeed.

Yes, I agree. I don't think it matters at all to a personal sexual experience where the orgasm comes from but it matters very much to society and to women's satisfying sexual experiences as a whole.

Its not a myth. Women orgasm from just having the g spot stimulated alone.

No women don't have to be quiet about their own experiences but I'm not sure how a woman would know that an orgasm came from her own vagina or her clitoris.

NB. I have repeatedly said possible to have clitoral orgasm from PIV.

Ok, Offred, am really confused now - how can one have a clitoral orgasm through nipple stimulation?

I think that we must have different definitions of clitoral orgasm.

"An orgasm have you will"

Oh deary me, Milly

It's like taking candy from a baby.... < shakes head ruefully >

Based on what evidence milly... Seriously... That you can orgasm from PIV? The anatomy of the vagina is well studied, why does your personal understanding of your experience trump science?

TheDoctrine swooshing vibrator had me in stitches.

Because you wiggle, doctrine. It's not rocket science, nor is the g-spot thing.

The only sciency bit is saying that we know the clitoris has loads of nerve endings and the vagina doesn't have many (though it's not devoid of sensation cos that would be weird).

I do think we might all be better off living in 1382 where none of this was known.

I know what the Op is doing right now. < sigh >

Because the centre of the orgasm, if you have one, is the clitoris.... Not the nipples which might be being stimulated...

It really doesn't actually matter to the person having the orgasm where it comes from but as I've said I think the issue of the g spot matters for other reasons I have mentioned and that Anne Koedt explains better.

Offred I can orgasm from just having my g spot stimulated. Its not the same in any way to a clitoral one.
Jeez!!!

I've got a feeling that earnest discussion is not the way the op expected this thread to go. It's all about the glow

I can't imagine, mist. Baking cakes, is it?

Well if you define ALL female orgasms as being clitoral, then it's pretty easy to define any other type of orgasm as being fictional, I guess.

I can tell the difference between an orgasm that I have when MY clitoris is stimulated and one that I have when I orgasm through deep vaginal penetration.

They are different orgasms. Sometimes I can have both kinds simultaneously.

I don't much care whether there is a G spot or not. But I know that I have orgasms that feel different from the regular clitoral kind.

Perhaps that makes me some kind of statistical outlier. Or a mutant.

But my experience is my experience and until a scientist comes into my bedroom and proves that I have no ability to orgasm through vaginal stimulation, then there is no proof that I don't.