can you just ask someone for sex?

[secretsatan]

If you suspect that someone fancies you, how wrong is it to just ask them if they'd like some sex?

I'm not up for a relationship at all. But I'd really like some sex.

I don't think subtle is going to work. Or at least it will take too long. Or they might think I want to go out with them.

remind me how this works. It's been a while.

Come back OP

I do wonder what it says about us though as I frantically check my phone for updates!

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It says that I have no chance of having recreational sex with anyone other than dh

I hope this ends better than the one where the OP wanted to lick her boss

I don't remember that one, how did that end?

Purr :o

No reply. He's definitely read it. So he's either scrubbing himself down in the shower for me or he's not fussed.

Nothing is worse than no.

There's always the possibility that he's preparing his response, but I don't think I'm in here.

Still, it made for a day's entertainment eh?

Still, I'll know to go with the beaver line next time.

Never mind, Secretsatan. When he's drunk, he'll reply. Then he'll spend the next day thinking, "shit, what've I done?"

Now if I got that message as a man assuming at work then I'd wait to reply until after work. I would reply though!!

In fact, you could have a whole relationship like this.

There's every possibility that he's pacing the floor worrying about whether you're being serious, or it's a massive wind-up and he'll look silly if he tries to take you up on it. It was a bold move you made there... but his response will take boldness also!

Good luck

Almost crying at the "I know you're shy & shit" line! Oh Secretsatan, I hope he is preparing a sizzling response & you get down & dirty with him and he is an awesome shag!

Oh balls. Hope he's just waiting til he's home before sending something.

Been lurking, and waiting to see what he says. What did you write? I didn't understand it, apart from recreational sex as opposed to productive sex:)

I had a FWB a long time ago. After a year of flirting I finally couldn't stand it anymore and rang him to see if he was busy or would like to help me drink a bottle of champagne I had in my fridge:)

He was nearly too late for any champagne as I swigged most of it, in my nerves before he arrived:)

He's running down the petrol station for condoms...

Are you Saga from The Bridge?

Maybe he has erectile difficulties!! You don't know!!!

Never ever have I hoped as much that somebody I don't know gets a shag

And me!

He does NOT have erectile difficulties ...

Think I need to step away from this thread

This thread is making me want to proposition some random bloke for a bit if jiggery pokery

This is my fave thread in AAAAAGGGEEESSSSS!

He's either thinking of what to reply with or organising the restraining order

Good luck op