I Cannot believe I am having to talk about this...

[filee777]

I've just come down the stairs having gone for a bit of a lie down, up at 5.40 with the kids this morning, to find my husband looking at porn while my child is in the room with him!

My three year old child!

He jumped up and opened the door, meeting me at the bottom of the stairs and asked me 'why i wasn't still sleeping' and i sort of said 'can i come in' and he let me, but when i checked my computer there were open pages of porn on there!

I said 'what the hell is this' and he said that he just 'wanted to see what would come up in google'??? so I said 'with our son in the room?' and he said the boy had been playing on the other side of the room - that doesnt make it any better in my eyes.

hes just tried to give me a cuddle and i ignored him and he asked 'if i was pissed off' with him and I very much said yes, did some dishes and have come upstairs.

i dont want to talk to him or even LOOK at him right now, my bloody kid was in the room! Surely that is TOTALLY unacceptable????

So annoyed.

Oxford...too late, she did already humiliate herself. Puts her hands down her husbands pants with kids in the room??

I actually could cry for some children. I don't let my 3 year old looking at my 'reveal' and 'heat' magazine ffs....because of the celebrity pictures...

A poster mocked other posters earlier saying "next they'll say it's all for the CHILDREN'. I bloody wish it was in every bodies minds.

Spirulina and WhiteSugar thanks for joining the thread and not making me look the biggest idiot on here.

Filee look at the big picture, you can't stay with this guy.

Why is anyone trying to defend this man? Trying to normalise his actions?

Instead of spouting attacks at other posts, why not just explain in a mature and adult fashion why you think it's ok to watch porn with a child in the room to the point that you need to masturbate.

Oh wait, is it because you can't justify it, without sounding like a sexual predator?

Whitesugar, first you said you felt up your husband while your kids were 5 feet away

now you say you were out of sight

which is it ?

if there was a wall between you, you do understand that you were in a different room don't you ?

your first post was disingenuous, your second is backpeddling

shit, or get off the pot, I say

you have sexual relations with your H in front of the kids or you don't

Spirulina, you shame yourself with that 'quip'. Do not even joke about things like that. I actually have standards about my child.

whitesugar, I manage to love my Dh and have a laugh and a goodtime in bed without touching him up in the same room as my child. In fact, I manage to do so precisely because neither of us could lower ourselves to such things in the same room as our child. This is because I have no sexual issues that make it possible for me to be aroused or want arousal around children. And you've changed your description of the proximity of your kids.

A question: how can you be aroused near your own children? Or think it was a good idea? I'm incapable of getting my head around the concept of sexual arousal and the presence of children in the same room being even the teeny-tiniest bit compatible.

As my dear old dad would say..."the world is full of wrong 'uns"....
That's why some people are seeking to justify his actions. The actions that are quite clearly unjustifiable.

I've seen posters here say they have sex whilst their baby sleeps in a cot nearby. Where do you draw the line?

What's with all the immature Halloween namechanging?

CG when you have to rely on women who feel their husbands up in front of their kids and then boast about it, then it's time to have another good look at yourself

Chilled I think the problem is that you see a connection between child abuse and normal adult sexual relationships. Healthy people don't make this connection. Oh and for the record I never said myself and my husband were having sex in front of the children I said fooling around whilst the children were watching telly. I suppose fooling around is another scary taboo for some of you.

ChilledGuy, I have to admit to thinking you were a bit of a , but I like your last post.

Calling out people's nicknames ? I can hear the barrel scraping from here

Same room? Same floor.... Someone up thread described hearing her parents and being kept awake. How do you know that's not happening with you??

FFS, posting before I had finished!!! Meant to add that I liked the bit about realising OP should leave him, that's all. Your other contributions have been just awful.

Thanks Scaryfucker I will.

Yeah chilled guy, maybe you're not such a wanker after all
:)

Yes, fooling around is a scary taboo for man-hating frigid women who think sex is dirty but not for the coooool wives. Yeah, heard it all before, with fucking knobs on. Change the record.

mama yes! He's right there!

Its a sign of your filthy minds that you assumed my husband had an erection. Really and truly girls!

I can help you with that, CG

Girls?

White you are quite unbelievable. I really mean that.

I think somebody just outed himself

My other posts were always based on her "D" H making a serious mistake which we thought rightly or wrongly was a one off. I supported OP as she wanted to save her marriage as I've seen what happens when one fails due to the first mistake along the line and I'm still seeing the repuccsions 20 years on.

Yes!!!!!!!!!!!!! Defo......... Hahahaha!!!!

ChilledGuy It's good to see someone not sticking to their point just because they can't admit they might have read the situation wrong. Shows that you can, you know, think

And now that you've made the switch, change your name to a hallowe'en one

Oh yeah, whitesugar, those of us who couldn't and wouldn't get aroused in the same room as our children are clearly just uptight prissypants who find a bit of a fumble taboo and scary

I do find having sexual activity in the same room as children taboo,but that's only because it IS taboo.

Spirulina, if you cannot see the distinction between choosing and wanting to engage in sexual activity in the same room as children, and having sexual activity in the same house but not in their presence (even if they accidentally hear it), then I am seriously worried about you.

How do adults need this explaining to them? How are PARENTSneeding this explained to them?

Do some people have their basic perception and ability to understand implications removed at birth?!