Dh keeps doing something I don't like in bed

[Moochicken]

Without wanting to go into too much detail, dh keeps doing something during sex which I don't like. I ask him not to and after a few minutes he does it anyway.

It doesn't happen every time but he did it again last night. He apologized after and said he won't do it again (he says this everytime) and now he can't understand why I'm still pissed off.

How seriously would you take this? If I said no and stopped sex he would listen and would never force me to do something but I still feel uncomfortable that he basically ignores my wishes.

I am out of it,but many people arn't and sometimes I think when a thread like this highlights the bad in their relationships they need to rationalise it because they are conditioned to do so.

FRMD I'm sorry you were put through that, well done for getting out of it.

Thank you everyone for your wishes.

I needed time from my first post to articulate what I wanted to say so it came out right. I think for a lot of people on this board in abusive relationships have been slowly cooked little things and little things over time. Its difficult for it to be reflected back at hem in glaring technicolour.

Friggin that's so awful. Your ex sounds delightful. Sorry you had to go through that.

Sorry what you have been through Friggin and glad you got out.

Have also reported thread.

Also reported.

Yep, reported. I'm concerned that some of the abusers who have descended on this tread maybe getting off on some of the horrific experiences posters have shared.

FRMD sorry for your terrible experiences.

I needed time from my first post to articulate what I wanted to say so it came out right

You articulated it amazingly well. A brilliant and moving post about the death by 1000 cuts that is domestic abuse.

Frig

Oh dear lord frigging I could have written that word for word. Youre out, I'm out. But so many arent and threads like this do so much damage.