Who's going to start dating thread No57?

[akaWisey]

Or am I going to be 'one'

oh brokenhearted bless you

are you back online yet?

Broken - Almost every time I get drunk I text ex! Don't feel bad, just resolve not to do it again!

I had third date with gorgeous man last night, he stayed over and I did the deed - eeek! Trouble is it's made me a bit crazy, can't stop thinking about him now! He's been texting me today but I know realistically this won't work long term - he is 40, no kids and never wants them. I am 31 and have 2 little DCs under 8. It's only going to end in tears (mine!)

Broken it's ok, just get it out on here and sit on the phone next time .

Broken it's ok, just sit on the phone next time .

ah double post ffs!

Never mind Broken , it's just one of those things but like Juliette says, best to get it off your chest on here in future.

And nooooo Superdooper just look at it as shagging him senseless enjoying yourself for a bit, insouciance is your friend.

Oh and while I'm at it - how you doin' Juliette ? ( SmallChange said that to me before and it keeps making me laugh, hence you copping for it now )

How long were you together brokenhearted? And How long ago did you break up? I'm sure you must have already said, but these threads move so fast.

Who else is out tonight? Where's the loo update???

Lots of nice texting from Alpha. It's good. Just chit chat but I like the fact that he's obviously thinking about me quite a bit. I must admit I am a bit excited about Wednesday. Hope we still like each other. It'll be almost a fortnight since our first date.

Have you seen him or been in contact since then? How was it left?

I'm good, how'er you doin' Kin?

OWW

well I'm on the Dating Subs Bench for the foreseeable, so putting together my "fantasy meet a hot Scandinavian " outfit in my head is about as exciting as it gets. 2 meetups next week but i'm mainly gonna go to enjoy the activity/sport as there don't seem to be "loads of men in my age group" attending.

Alpha sounds fantastic, what are the plans for Wednesday?

I am really quite nervous about my RL date tomorrow .. It just feels so different from the online dates I had .. Which is funny as I have already met him and he seems really nice!!

broken I just want to say again that I don't think you are in the right place yet for dating .. Be kind to yourself

OWW alpha sounds fab

Hi to everyone else

The death of a close relative can really take its toll on a relationship you know. It's nobody's fault

What did you say in the text?

And I agree with the others that say you're not really ready to date atm. You sound very vulnerable.

Well Stumped I had a date with him which went really well, but then he was away on business purportedly until today. I'm busy tomorrow, he's busy Tuesday (and so am I, meeting College Bloke) so we're going for a meal Wednesday.

Lorna this is the first time I've been excited about a second date in yonks. So don't want to get my hopes up, but I might be doing, just a very little bit.

You never know what might happen at the Meetup - just look at Moan!