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Original poster

oooh i feel ridiculous

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ImNotBloody14 · 21/06/2013 20:21

So silly. I'm a NCing regular. and a real proper grown up, I swear

I fancy someone. But I cant get up the guts to let him know or even to contact him. I've added him on FB (it's taken me months to build up to that) and he accepted. he's liked a few of my posts and a photo. I keep seeing him online (butterflies) and want to make contact but cant think of anything to say that isn't a blatant excuse to get talking to him. AFAIK he's single- well it says so on his FB.

arrgh this is so frustrating. if this was my best friend she would be chatting away to him no problem.

don't know what i'm posting for- just need to get this out of my head.

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ImNotBloody14 · 08/07/2013 04:09

He was back up tonight. Lots more snigging Grin

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cleopatrasasp · 08/07/2013 04:25

I love this thread it just gives me the laughs. Grin Yayy to snigging.

LoveBeingUpAt4InTheMorning · 08/07/2013 04:45

Have only just seen this thread, fab op really pleased for you.

BitOutOfPractice · 08/07/2013 11:29
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ImNotBloody14 · 08/07/2013 11:32

I am awesome apparently Grin

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daimbardiva · 08/07/2013 12:26

Brilliant!!! Well done, this has cheered me up no end :)

thistlelicker · 08/07/2013 14:32

14 has a boyfriend na na na hey! 14 has a boyfriend!! Wink

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ImNotBloody14 · 08/07/2013 17:02
Grin

Dont jinx it!!

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HerrenaHarridan · 09/07/2013 07:11

Back already Wink

My date went well, amclearly more of a slapper than you, there was first date snigging Blush

PoppyWearer · 09/07/2013 07:14

Also delurking to say hurrah and huzzah for the snigging and shigging! Well done OP!

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ImNotBloody14 · 09/07/2013 10:20

yay herena! so where did you go?

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Riddo · 09/07/2013 10:23

De-lurking to say hooray, I love a happy ending Smile

Original poster
ImNotBloody14 · 14/07/2013 16:23

Just a wee update to let you all know it's still going well. Had our dinner/lunch date today which was lovely. And he's still lovely. Laughing constantly when im with him. lots a bit more snigging and shigging going on. Grin

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Original poster
ImNotBloody14 · 14/07/2013 16:24

Just a wee update to let you all know it's still going well. Had our dinner/lunch date today which was lovely. And he's still lovely. Laughing constantly when im with him. lots a bit more snigging and shigging going on. Grin

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DHtotalnob · 14/07/2013 22:45

Good for you! xxo

bumpybecky · 15/07/2013 16:35

:):):):)

BitOutOfPractice · 16/07/2013 21:15

Hurrah! Grin

stonesteps · 16/07/2013 23:07

yay!

WhiteBirdBlueSky · 17/07/2013 00:41

Ooh, that's great!

Original poster
ImNotBloody14 · 21/07/2013 04:23

Oh sorry ifoynfd it, but its all go r erong

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Numberlock · 21/07/2013 06:51

How come ?

PeggyBabcockBoot · 21/07/2013 08:46

Oh dear. What happened?

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ImNotBloody14 · 21/07/2013 10:34

No contact since tueadday and then he text me at 2am this morning, obviously just home from a night out and dint want to sleep alone. Hmm Why am i so shit at finding nice men?

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Walkacrossthesand · 21/07/2013 11:35

It's so disheartening isn't it. Seems like while you were enjoying the beginning of what could be a lovely relationship, he was enjoying the 'chase' and challenge of getting you into bed - and now thinks he can call on you for the shigs without any of the other relationship things. Sod him - but too.

scratchandsniff · 21/07/2013 11:49

I know it'll be hard but I would not contact him for several days and see what happens. You need to know if he's just after casual sex or a relationship.

Bloody buggers