I need to get laid

[fastdriver]

That's it really.

I separated six months ago (after several sexless years). I was a faithful wife.

I don't want another relationship, I don't want to shag anyone else's man (either deliberately or inadvertently), I don't want to end up with genital herpes of anything similar.

I want a NS relationship that's mostly about sex (God I sound desperate ).

I'm fussy about men, don't like bald or shaved heads, beards, paunches or poor hygiene.

I'm 42 and reasonably attractive.

How do I make this happen? Most men are gagging for it, aren't they? It can't be that difficult but I don't know where to start...

Has anyone been in this situation or can give me any advice?

[ItsYoniYappy]

I'm not at the match.com stage yet (i.e. paying to meet a guy)

[CuChullain]

Any

sadly that was not one of the 'interests' listed, had to settle for filling the condom with tabasco instead

[flatbellyfella]

This could get interesting, later this evening, when the wine comes out.....Don't you agree AF?

[Loulybelle]

I was on POF, but attracted all the twats, im a magnet for them, so i just gave up.

[spenceuk]

I was just saying in the dating thread im signing up to POF, hopefully its just the men on there that are twats

[Loulybelle]

You might get lucky Spence, i cant say for sure, never gone through the womens profiles.

[boyfromipinema]

There are a few blokes, like myself, who for one reason or another use this site.
Can you imagine the uproar if we'd have started a thread like this?
Having said that, it is a rather good idea....may have to start composing one anon.
Let me see.....Fit bloke in forties, likes travel, reading, meeting new people, curling up on the sofa with a glass of wine and a DVD..........oh, and hung like a donkey.
Any takers?

[Loulybelle]

Sorry boy, being a spurs fan is a dealbreaker for me , im a Man Utd kinda girl.

[fastdriver]

I will proper cat-fight you for Michael Fassbender... especially as Mr Rochester

[Loulybelle]

You so will not Fast, i might be short, but i can fight, hes mineeeeee!!!!!

[spenceuk]

ha that would be evil Louly but at least i would be receiving some messages

[CuChullain]

Loulybelle


......being a spurs fan is a dealbreaker for me grin, im a Man Utd kinda girl.





So you must be right filthy then

[Loulybelle]

shhhhh Cu, dont spread it about.

Spence, Im sure you will get plenty of fishes, all waiting for a nibble.

[fastdriver]

Louly I'm over six foot in heels and massively determined. You're not having him

[Loulybelle]

Fast, im 5 foot 3, 50% Irish and an essex girl, being a harden bitch comes naturally, i'll take ya down, but i will feel catholic guilt afterwards.

[spenceuk]

i really hope so but you definitley wont be spamming me since I'm a Leeds fan

[fastdriver]

OK, there are several of us women on here who've expressed an interest in a NS relationship...

Has anyone else had a PM from a man wanting the same? I'm just wondering if this guy has PMed all of us.

[Loulybelle]

Spence, my ex was a West Ham fan, not really in the position to judge now am i.

Fast, i've had plenty of offers for NS relationships.

[DotCottonsHairnet]

Can I join in this thread? Seperated for almost 6 months and have realised all I miss from stbxh is the sex! A fwb would be fab for now!

Am wary of the POF type sites.

[spenceuk]

Dot i know what you mean about wary.

I tried a different site than POF for a few days but i just find it harder chatting/flirting through a keyboard than face to face.

[AnyFucker]

FBF, it could get very interesting

unfortunately I will not be here to referee proceedings

cuch , that tabasco in the condom sounds hawwwt

[ItsYoniYappy]

A man PMing ?

Nope but if it the same one who used to well he wouldn't pm me because he already has and been told off a lot (sorry not funny)

Report him!

Can I just state I'm not looking for sex, I did date 2 guys and had sex with them but I am more a no sex without monogamy type so no PMs please.

I'm also on a dating break and will be until Julyish! POF is full of guys looking for sex, I was naive I had no idea dvd = sex. The really thought guys paid £20 taxi to come and watch a dvd with me.

Then they were sent home again approx 30 mins after arrival.

Just stating though, there are men on there looking for NS sex. I would say to always chat to them for a good while first and ove phone too and tell someone if/when/where you meet them

[Loulybelle]

Thats why i gave up, i dont want a NS relationship, i dont want all that bollocks i want commitment, and i wont be strayed from that want, i'll wait for commitment but i wont be shagging losers in the mean time.

I never found any serious guys on POF, so i cant be arsed to look anymore.

[ItsYoniYappy]

I'm the same Lbelle, I just go on when bored and lonely and have my options set at 'friends' I don't know if I want commitment, I don't know what I want tbh, a weekend guy would be nice.


I don't know how people re-marry or have new DPs, I never let anyone meet my DC and cannot visualise how that would go DS1 may say 'yeah he looks gay'

[spenceuk]

Does anyone have any positive storys about POF?

Im starting to think if its a waste of time signing up