How long before you feel comfortable talking about 'anal' and such?

[BurntPasta]

Been together about 3 and a half months. Known each other since April.
Started sleeping together two weeks into it. We have grown very close and done loads together other than sex obviously, we go out a lot and spend loads of time together. Especially lately as he's been sleeping at my house half the week.
Anyway - we've not broached the subject of anal but on a number of occasions, especially these past few weeks his hands have wandered around there but he's stopped short, once he was really drunk and went a little further than usual but I stopped him.

We've talked about loads of stuff, real personal stuff but we both seem too shy to actually bring this up!! Is that normal for just 3 months in?

of course it is tooth

Yes it is brr suggesting that she needs a cock shoved in her mouth to shut her up. Revolting. I won't report because I believe in people seeing how other posters really are but if AF wants to, she should.

yes she should indeed. good i am glad we got that sorted. FFS!

Two experiences with two different men:
man 1- I was surprisingly rather enjoying the initial sensation and gave a little sigh. Him 'You're not supposed to be enjoying it'
man 2- quite gentle about it and not too deep- used to go on about it ALL the time though, and ...surprise... turned out to be abusive and a sexual bully
So IM(v)HE it's not always the nicest of men who will push this issue.

Agree with MrsTP about leaving posts to stand since they reflect on that poster.
Vile.

I think brrr's delightful bit of over-sharing there has amply proved my point. No men in that piece of internet fiction scene were penetrated. Just one woman, triply.

DH and I agreed early on, it was a no. Good job really as the birth of Harry the Pile would have put a stop to it anyway.

Oh, and share not scare, eh brrbrr

brr, HQ thought it was a vile personal attack

funnily enough just the other night I was directed to this thread about arse fucking as it was "right up my alley" since I was "bitter and twisted"

anal sex may not be violent for some people, but the threat of it seems to be very well utilised by some of our more abusive visitors, it seems

The smirk was with Beth obviously

none of our men wanted to be

Funny that.....

I'm with Headinhands.

Off to Gransnet.

See ya. :p

The same rules apply now as when I was just discovering sex - simply, if you're comfortable with it it's fine and if you're not it's not. I would expect someone new to sex would be less comfortable with anal than someone who has done it all and has a long term trusted partner.

But women are designed to be penetrated and men to penetrate. It's just the natural order of things.......

Oh dear

Sorry MNTowers :)

gransnet for me too I think. Where is it?

I believe even all the Silver Surfers are doing a spot of stool pushing these days

Whoops!

I feel quite daring! I've been deleted!

HOUSE !

Good try Brr

It's an old one that.

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