got a date tonight and I'm getting nervous!

[CrispyHedgehog]

help!!!!

spill lady

Come on, I have to go out in an hour! taps foot impatiently

It did not end well :(

I'll post properly later. Have to go out now.

oh noooo! What happened???

I told you not to pick your nose

get back here hedgehog! tease

if i can't live an exciting life vicariously through mumsnet where can I?

Hard lines Crispy. Onwards and upwards.

very full on and intense.. too much so. Hugging and touching me like we'd been together for years.

He insisted on taking me home, asked to use the loo.. hwo the fuck am I so stupid

I had made it very clear from the outset that I wasn't up for sex this early in the relationship and he said I din't have to be old fashioned with him and did it anyway :(

Just stumbled onto your thread - Crispy, are you saying what I think you're saying? And if so have you spoken to the police?

(((((hugs)))))

whaaat crispy, what are you saying ?

havent spoken to anyoen
i can't say it

Phone rape crisis. They'll understand, even if you can't say it. They really will make you feel so much better - if only because they know what you are feeling without you needing to express it.

You don't need to talk about it with them...you make mundane conversation, or they can talk to you about next steps, or you can talk about it if you want too. It's up to you entirely...

Please phone them, or if not, phone the police. They can help more than you imagine.

Rape crisis - 0808 802 9999

Jesus, crispy that's awful

It's not your fault. You have done nothing to be ashamed of. He's the one that should be bloody ashamed.

You really need to speak to someone in rl. If you can, please call the police and report him. He's in a position of trust, as Viking says.

oh no crispy, just read the thread. Are you ok? Can you speak to someone?

???? poor you xxx

I dont hink he thinks he did wrong. i think he thinks i was doing the no no no.. but realy meaning yes thing :( He ws nice as pie afterwards

i cna'ttalk to anyone, no yet

Even if you were doing the 'no, no, no' thing - it is STILL a no.

Please report x

I have pm'ed you crispy x

There is no way that he doesn't realise what he's done. He does know what he did, and how bad it was. He was just trying to minimise it, make you feel like you were in the wrong .

Please, call Rape Crisis. You don't have to talk about it, but they will be there for you and have advice. And they will listen.

Jesus that's awful, you poor thing.

i know its hard, but try not to feel ashamed or guilty over something HE has done to you. please call rape crisis, dont let him get away with it.

Sadly a lot of rapists are 'nice as pie' afterwards. If you said no and/or made it clear you didn't want to, and he did it anyway, then what he did was abhorrent as well as illegal.